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Introduce yourself here:
Tell us three things: 1. Your name and where you're based. 2. What brought you to The Pattern Lab — what were you looking for, or what caught your attention? 3. And this: which of the six tendencies in the Classroom PDF felt most like you — the one that made you think "yes, that's what I do"? There are no wrong answers. Every tendency is the right one for the individual it belongs to. We're just starting to map the territory.
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@Danielle Wright Ah - that sounds like a very tough time, a very difficult experience to go through! It seems like you are in a place where you can use your experiences to help others now?
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@Danielle Wright A wonderful legacy from a very difficult time!
Illuminating that doesn't enlighten
When illuminating is your driving tendency, you'll want to understand why things happened, and you'll want to explain your analysis, too, if you get half a chance. If illuminating (conveying your sense of the meaning in events or their likely consequences) is your instinctive response, you'll often find yourself helping others who matter to understand things. You'll be frustrated if you can't enlighten, if people who haven't taken any time to work out which things matter and which don't ignore your conclusions. That's part of the burden people who are strong in illuminating carry. Have you noticed this? Someone who thinks they know it all, and pushes their conclusions forward, yet isn't paying attention where it matters, and ignores others who are tryng to shine a light into the corners? We all lose when we don't collectively, learn from past experience.
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I find it quite challenging to let go when I have something I'm trying to share that I genuinely believe will take away the problem the person is facing. Sometimes they're not ready to let go of the problem. But most of the time it is because I don't understand enough of the problem, so what I've found won't actually work.
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@Anthony Smits I like what you remind us of - “inevitably irritates”! It is so helpful to be aware of what we’re defaulting to and the impact of that over time
Welcome Gus
Gus ( @Gus Gray ) is the Lightwright, a very cool self-description for someone who helps people find or create awesome careers that light them up.
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Thanks for the Welcome Anthony! Excited to be here and to learn more about my unique operating signature and contribute to the community!
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@Lydie Molina Thank you :):)
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