Hey Brother, “When I walk through the city, I can get so horny I just want to look at all of them.” He said it out loud in the men’s circle. And as soon as he did, every man nodded. The feminine allure is powerful. And most men feel it deeply, whether they admit it or not. But culturally? We deal with this in… questionable ways. - We blame men for being “too driven by lower energy.” - We repress their nature and label it dangerous. - We punish clumsy expressions of desire, without ever creating space to practice this part of themselves. - We shame them for feeling attraction to other women, especially men in long-term relationships. The result? Suppression. Avoidance. Resentment. Deviancy. And sometimes, unfortunately, violence. Trying to neuter masculine hunger doesn’t make men safer. It makes them disconnected. Bitter. Unexpressed. It hurts men. And it hurts women too. Because when men feel their nature is shamed, Many will revolt by turning that shame outward, Projecting it back onto the feminine. It’s a dangerous loop. And let’s be real: You can’t shame a man’s desire all day… Then expect him to be a wild, passionate, embodied lover at night. Or a wise role model for the next generation. It doesn’t work like that.  We need a new approach. We need to teach boys how to cultivate their sexual hunger. Not as something to be repressed, But as a source of power. Of presence. Of depth. And we need to teach girls how to meet that energy in ways that honor both their sovereignty and polarity. Yes, it’ll take a cultural shift. But the way we’ve been doing it? It’s clearly not working. Maybe another revolution is needed. And maybe your voice has a part to play in that. So here’s the question to sit with: If we want to raise men who embody grounded intimacy and erotic intelligence… How should we teach them? And what example are you setting now? Because you don’t have to have a son to shape the future. You just have to be a man willing to go first.