When did I start Tai chi?
I was asked the other day when I started learning Tai Chi, and it got me thinking. Well, I was 21. I canāt remember the exact month, I think September but I do remember the car I had at the time. Thatās how I know my age. A lot has changed in my life since then. Not just the car. Iāve lived in and renovated five homes, a couple of them major projects where the entire roof came off and my wife and I rebuilt the house, with a lot of help along the way. During this time, we got married, built a business, and now have three amazing children, the oldest is 15, the youngest is 8. Looking back at that car, I thought to myself, Iāve owned many cars since then some good, some not so good, and some I wish I still had. But what really stands out to me is that despite all the changes along the way, Tai Chi has been a constant. With all the noise and chaos of life, it has always given me a quiet place to return to. Only now, more than 20 years on, do I truly see the value of that Tai Chi sanctuary I used to attend. It never occurred to me at the time that it was a space to escape the stresses and strains of building projects, raising a young family, and setting up a business. It was just something I did, rarely missing a class. What started as an interest, simply going somewhere to learn movement once or twice a week became a habit. And in that habit, I found the grounding of Tai Chi. I used to go somewhere to find this grounding, but more recently, Iāve noticed that now, when I move, it comes to me. Tai Chi has genuinely changed my world. I truly believe for the better! It hasnāt been easy, but it has been constant. There were certainly times I thought, whatās the point? Iāll never get it; my body wonāt allow these movements; Iām broken. I made excuses for myself, like I canāt do it because my job is damaging my body, or Iām too tired because I didnāt get enough sleep last night. In pain and uncomfortable, Iād think to myself, with a hint of jealousy, how does my instructor make it look so easy and effortless? The truth is, it came down to her experience.