Do we really still need International Women’s Day?
It’s a valid question. Especially when it feels like the day has become about corporate cupcakes and forced quotas. .. before I share the rest of this caption ... does anyone actually read what I write when I post these videos? Anyway, for the 1 person that probably does, we digress! The reason I made this video wasn't actually to defend the day itself. It was to address the "Compassion Pie" fallacy. We cover a lot of ground in this clip, from hiring quotas to the "Chesterton's Fence" theory. There is some kinda weird resistance from men (and even women) that acknowledging women’s struggles requires us to ignore men’s struggles (suicide, dangerous jobs, loneliness). That isn't true. We don't have to tear one group down to build the other up. To the men watching: We don't need to step away. We need to maintain the fence until the field is actually safe. --- A final note on what's often not said: Admittedly, I hesitated to post this. It can be easily misconstrued. I've seen too many well-meaning men, fathers, and husbands publicly shamed in their moments of vulnerability for sharing what they learned. This is bullying. And hugely counterproductive. Men sharing their learnings with other men is how we'll close this empathy gap. So think twice before you engage, you can critique my editing, my dumb jokes, or tell me I'm wrong- I want that dialogue. But if you are here to shame rather than build, you are in the wrong place. Without dialogue that builds people up, your presence is as toxic to the movement than those who are indifferent.