Per @torahcents on IG ... HEAR HER OUT‼️🤣😂 & then let's break this down ... Ngl .. I felt ATTACKED 😤 at a couple points in this video & almost didn't watch or follow! 🙄🙄 but ..... she's RIGHT! Im invisible. Not meeting men. At home. Yes, I stand on BIG stages .. & go home immediately after. Yes, I meet men in the clubs & spots I perform at .. but those men are completely mesmerized by my Star POWER 💫 & we rarely get the opportunity to make a real connection. Plus Im over the club, bar, nightlife meetings. The man Im interested in probly doesn't frequent "da spots"! 😂😂 The point is, the man of my dreams isn't just gonna show up at my door, unless he's the Amazon driver or the Cable guy! I really could do ALOT more to position myself .. remember she said MEET 50, not date 50! 😂😂

This one deserved a Repost!! Let go of the control ..... MASTER YOURSELF‼️ Govern You. Thats it, that's ALL. As soon as you feel the urge, stop. Take a deep breath. & snap out of it! Release the tension in your forehead & relax your jaw. Then redirect. Practice. Enjoy this day! 💞

If you're not ready to talk about sex (on certain levels) please feel free to let me know privately .. otherwise 👀 ... That passionate trance you feel like you're in when he's deep inside you 🫦😻👄💦 ... identify that moment & who's actually in control.. are you there just for HIS pleasure? eyes closed, your passionate cries heard all over the room, he KNOWS he's hittin ya spot .. he KNOWS he's got you WRAPPED around his lil finger! But that trance you feel, that energy you feel, that ISNT him 😳😤 THATS YOU GIRL‼️ The sway in your hips, the inviting twinkle in your eye, the coolness of your lips.. YOU are the reason he's here, the reason he's alive, the reason his manhood rises at all! The prize! 🎁 Yeah! STOP GIVING YOUR SHIT AWAY!!! Or ... Take back your power! Look him in his eyes, tell him to say YOUR name! No moans from you cuz you gotta talk HIM thru. 😌 & when you finish, if he aint ya 🥷, GET UP, clean up & be on ya way home! & NEVER let him spend the nite at your house! They get too familiar! You're giving wife/girlfriend vibes, pillow talking, catchin feelings! NO! PROTECT your energy & SNATCH THE CAT BACK! But even if you do decide to get ya rocks off! Get it & go! You're in control! Never overstay your welcome! Make him come look for you! Your sexual energy is your power babe! YOU DECIDE. #StayOnHisMind 💋 GN! 😴💤

I've been living outside my comfort zone lately! It's slightly uncomfortable, but Im alive! 😂😂 It's easy to meet men, but not always easy to meet the right men! What are your challenges in dating? Are you dating or nah? Do you know HOW to date? Is there a science to it? Are we doing enough to get the results we want❓Hmmmmm! 💞

I can stand on stage but it's harder for me to go Live! I know it's crazy but 🤷🏽‍♀️ anyway! I stopped critiquing & criticizing myself, I decided not go care what anyone thought of me & just posted it! I feel better about doing it again tmrw! Celebrate YOURSELF! What made you feel good today❓💞