Beautiful Day Ladies! ☀️ Please forgive my delay today, late nite at work last nite & now Im on the hwy headed to Jacksonville, FL (6hr drive) to perform tonite! @Sandy Judson arent you in Jacksonville babe❓ You should come outside tonite!! (Elevation Lounge, I go on at 9pm, I'll leave your name +2 at the door, if you can make it!) 😆 My question to you today is ... WHO were you before you were told who to be❓ We're born PURE. Our beliefs are 1st shaped by our parents, or whomever you were raised by & THEIR complete belief system is thrust upon us in our formative years, up until our own systems start to form in young adulthood. Then the WORLD gets a hold of us & tells us WHO we need to be for a certain income, for a certain family structure, for a certain lifestyle ... but what if YOU had the opportunity to choose from the start❓ From BIRTH❓ Would you have gone along with sum of the things you've been influenced by? What if I said START OVER then⁉️🤷🏽‍♀️ DROP all the things that don't serve YOU, who you want to be NOW & goin forth in life. I've done this. I DECIDE. I EXIST .. IN THIS BODY, IN THIS LIFE (that I only get 1 of 👀) I DECIDE. It's that easy! Will sumone, sum ppl be hurt by that fact❓ SURE. Thats THEIR problem to deal with tho. I don't need anyone's permission to be. God already gave His permission! Read the article below about "Cleansing the Lens" thru which we see life! AND "The Four Agreements" a GREAT read or audiobook by Don Miguel Ruiz will be a MUST here in the Circle! 💞 I'll check back in! 😌 https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/cleansing-your-lens-to-change-your-reality-8fb6e06f06e8?sk=b9969e289f6696cd245ab97c72d169dc https://books.apple.com/book/id364290050

Per @torahcents on IG ... HEAR HER OUT‼️🤣😂 & then let's break this down ... Ngl .. I felt ATTACKED 😤 at a couple points in this video & almost didn't watch or follow! 🙄🙄 but ..... she's RIGHT! Im invisible. Not meeting men. At home. Yes, I stand on BIG stages .. & go home immediately after. Yes, I meet men in the clubs & spots I perform at .. but those men are completely mesmerized by my Star POWER 💫 & we rarely get the opportunity to make a real connection. Plus Im over the club, bar, nightlife meetings. The man Im interested in probly doesn't frequent "da spots"! 😂😂 The point is, the man of my dreams isn't just gonna show up at my door, unless he's the Amazon driver or the Cable guy! I really could do ALOT more to position myself .. remember she said MEET 50, not date 50! 😂😂

I've been living outside my comfort zone lately! It's slightly uncomfortable, but Im alive! 😂😂 It's easy to meet men, but not always easy to meet the right men! What are your challenges in dating? Are you dating or nah? Do you know HOW to date? Is there a science to it? Are we doing enough to get the results we want❓Hmmmmm! 💞

📌 START HERE — Welcome to The Circle! ☀️ Sis… take a breath. You’re home 🤍 Welcome to the Sunshine Circle™, a sacred, honest space for women who are ready to: stop repeating the same relationship cycles take accountability without shame rebuild self-worth set and stand on boundaries and become the woman who chooses — not chases This is not a gossip group. This is not a man-bashing circle. This is not surface-level motivation. This is real work, done in community, led with love. 👋 First Things First (Do These Now) 1️⃣ Introduce Yourself Head to the Introductions post and tell us: Your name Where you’re joining from What you’re hoping to gain here You don’t have to overshare — just show up. 2️⃣ Review the Community Rules They’re below. They matter. 3️⃣ Visit the Classroom This is where you’ll find: Frameworks Resources TrainingsAll designed to support your growth. 4️⃣ Start With an Open Mind You won’t be coddled here — but you will be supported. 💛 From Me to You I created this space because I know what it’s like to: - love deeply - overlook red flags - give chances that weren’t earned - and wake up one day realizing… something has to change If you’re here, you’re not broken. You’re ready. I’m glad you’re sitting with me. ~ Sunshine ✨

This one deserved a Repost!! Let go of the control ..... MASTER YOURSELF‼️ Govern You. Thats it, that's ALL. As soon as you feel the urge, stop. Take a deep breath. & snap out of it! Release the tension in your forehead & relax your jaw. Then redirect. Practice. Enjoy this day! 💞