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Something new starts in here this week.
For months the Daily Catch has been about unpacking the pattern. Spotting it, naming it, understanding it. That work matters. But understanding a pattern doesn’t change it. Practising the opposite does. So from today, every day you’ll catch one thing and do one small thing. Five minutes, not fifty. Go here:https://www.skool.com/surinaj-9674/classroom/20175c16?md=9b27c0cf10264e2d938d2d49e576fe62
Something new starts in here this week.
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NEW WEEK: The Resentment of Over-Giving
This week we go deep with quiet resentment because of over giving, I encourage you to look at your ledger today. Sub-consciously you are keeping score that might hold you back! For today's layer: https://www.skool.com/surinaj-9674/classroom/20175c16?md=b861d61b8a584e2a9f97d085faa8d3b8
NEW WEEK: The Resentment of Over-Giving
I'm happy to help, but I need you to respect my time, my generosity, and the limits of what I'm willing to give.
Wednesday: The Payoff
Resentment itself pays you. It lets you be the good one who was wronged, the giver who was taken from, without ever having to risk the honest ask. Being owed feels safer than asking. Let AVA make that case so you can see it. https://www.skool.com/surinaj-9674/classroom/20175c16?md=31ab00ada8a04c53b228e1cf476e4731
Wednesday: The Payoff
I can recognise their need without making myself their solution. My heart stays open. My eyes stay open, too.
Tuesday: What makes you Over Give?
Yesterday AVA traced the resentment to the over-give. Today, the fear that made you over-give in the first place. You gave past your own line instead of saying the true thing. Why does the true thing feel so dangerous to say? Go here to go deeper: https://www.skool.com/surinaj-9674/classroom/20175c16?md=75e50c22f2f14cda941160778348548c
Tuesday: What makes you Over Give?
Ava kept me terribly busy on this one! Bottom line: My generosity is freely given, never automatically owed. And then, a very precious thought: Speak while your heart is still willing, rather than waiting until it's weary.
Invitation to this week's Coffee Chat
I've been a little quiet for a while, but I'd like to invite you for a coffee chat on Friday 9am about what is next for AVA. And everyone present in the meeting will get to do a free assessment on what is keeping you stuck and you'll walk away knowing what is you Snapback Type (note you'll need to have a Claude account for this so make sure you have it before the meeting). Please indicate below if I'll see you in the meeting. Link to meeting in Calendar😉
Invitation to this week's Coffee Chat
I was sooo looking forward to joining the coffee chat this week, but I am booked for an "Ouma Oupa Dag" at a grandchild's school. 😢
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