I have never truly been in love, though I have experienced crushes and moments of infatuation at times. For a while, I used to feel embarrassed by that, almost as if it meant I lacked experience or had missed something important. But over time, I have begun to see it differently. Now I reframe it as something intentional and meaningful. By loving Allah first, I believe my romantic love and deepest emotional attachment are meant to be reserved for my future husband, in shaa Allah. To me, that love is not something casual or something to be given freely to just anyone — it is an amanah, something precious and worthy of protection. Instead of seeing my lack of romantic love as a deficiency, I now see it as a sign that my heart has been preserved for the right person, at the right time, in the way Allah has written for me. That perspective gives me peace rather than shame. Has anyone else felt the same way?

We’re so glad you’re here. This community is for sisters who are serious about accelerating their marriage search, gaining clarity, and moving toward marriage this year, insha’Allah. You’re surrounded by like-minded women walking a similar path. ❤️ To get started, please introduce yourself and share: - Your name and the country you’re joining us from (we’re an international community!) - What do you hope to gain from the Muslim Marriage Accelerator - One fun or interesting fact about you We can’t wait to get to know you and support you on this journey, bi’ithnillah.