Most People Don't See You.
Not really. They see a version of you their brain already made up. Let me show you: A little kid sits down for lunch. His mom puts some chopped-up green grapes on his plate. Sweet. Juicy. Safe. He eats them happily. So now, in his head: Small green pile on the plate = yummy (š). Next day, he sees the same kind of green pile on his plate. Same shape. Same color. š He digs in without thinking⦠And instantly regrets it. Itās relish. He Grimaces. š¬ Spits it out. 𤮠Starts crying.š What happened? He trusted the color. He trusted the shape. He thought he knew what it was. But his brain filed it under the wrong thing. And when it didnāt match⦠he rejected it hard. Thatās exactly how grown-ups operate too. Only instead of food, theyāre sorting: - People - Offers - Advice - Opportunities Theyāve had bad experiences. Theyāve been burned. Theyāve been let down. So now they label fast. And they miss whatās actually good. If your message doesnāt look like what their brain already trusts? They toss it outāeven if itās exactly what they need. Thatās why I talk so much about failures and fallacies. Because people carry: - Past stories that made them stop trusting - Old beliefs that donāt serve them anymore And those things shape every decision they make. So what do you do? You donāt yell louder. You speak in a way that feels familiar⦠Then gently flip the plate and show them whatās really there. Thatās how you shift perception. Thatās how you get heard. I break this down more in Module 4. Your camp buddy! Tony