Hi mamas. I’m Brandi. I’m a mom with anxiety, ADHD, BPD, and trauma — which basically means my nervous system is permanently set to “what the hell is happening?” Some days I’m crushing it. Some days I’m dissociating while making chicken nuggets and wondering how I got here. I created Mental Health Mamas because I’m tired of spaces that act like love, gratitude, or a morning routine will magically cure a fried brain. I love my kid with my whole soul and sometimes feel completely overwhelmed, overstimulated, and emotionally wrecked. If that offends anyone — this probably isn’t their space. Here, we don’t pretend motherhood healed us. We don’t shame coping mechanisms that keep us alive. We don’t tell each other to “just breathe” like that fixes trauma. Some of us are thriving. Some of us are barely functioning. Most of us are oscillating wildly between the two. You don’t need to be inspirational here. You don’t need to be okay. You don’t even need to talk. You just need to exist — and that’s enough. If you’re exhausted, overstimulated, emotionally complicated, and still showing up for your kids anyway… welcome. You’re in the right place 🖤. You’re welcome to share, lurk, cry, vent, or just exist quietly. No pressure. No shame. Ever. I’m really glad you’re here 🤍. If you feel up to it, say hi below—or drop an emoji that matches your current mood.