HW Day 1 ā Struggles & Wins (get real) 5 Struggles - Mental Health: Iām quite autistic, and many times feel like I force conversations because Iām aware of how to pretend to be sociable. I avoid interaction with people, and feel dumb when even addressing people on camera. - Money: Iām not money motivated at all, which sucks for obvious reasons. I tend to give up opportunities to be more profitable, if I donāt NEED the money. This keeps me in limbo between being financially free, and struggling. - One is Never Enough: Iām not good at moderation, and am no stranger alcoholism and drug use. That combined with free time has always been a recipe for disaster for me, so Iāve learned to stay busy to avoid relapse episodes. Itās come close to killing me a couple of times now. - Burnout: Itās had for me to put things down when I pick them up. It almost always leads to burnout. I have a high aptitude for most things I put my mind too, but that also means I expect more of myself than I reasonably should. Itās hard for me to say, āthatās good enoughā and move on to the next thing that needs my attention. - Passing Judgement: I tend to judge people when I think they arenāt living up to their potential, when I have no idea what they have to deal with in their personal life. Can cause undo friction in personal relationship, or prevent a productive relationship from forming at all. ______________________________________ 5 Contrasting Wins: - Mental Health: My brain is wired so that when I have an interest in something, I donāt stop until I have an above conversational level of understanding.Ā This is what drove me to be, in my short life, a journeyman electrician, a systems engineer with several industry certifications, and now a fitness photographer doing standout work. - Money: Not focusing on the money aspect so much helps me to embrace other opportunities such as education and outreach. Doing things you donāt necessarily get paid for, but help promote you as a byproduct. - Money: Iāve found passions that exclude habits like drugs and alcohol, to help fill that void and keep me happy. Bodybuilding was a big one, but business ownership is another one. Its impossible to keep a business afloat, especially early on, if you arenāt careful. Plus I LOVE what I do, and do want to risk giving it up just for a weekend of indulging. - Burnout: When I choose to āburnoutā on specific things that I not only enjoy, but help me earn a living, it doesnāt feel like burnout. Yea I have rough weeks where it seems like maybe Iām only doing the sucky part of the job, but it never lasts long. The work I have ahead is something I look forward to. So the result of burnout now takes the form now āIām not doing anything today, Iām just going to play video games for 12 hours straight or binge watch some stupid show that seemed interestingā - Judgement: I struggle to think of a friend that I have who isnāt doing something with their life. All of my friends are essential high performance individuals, or on their way to becoming one because thatās what they want to do. So its rare that I have a question, or need advice, that I canāt go to a friend with.