Staying Top of Mind Isn’t Enough Anymore (Part 1)
For decades, real estate coaches and brokerages drilled the same advice into agents: “Stay top of mind.” The thinking was simple, if people remember you when they’re ready to move, they’ll call you. And in the pre-digital world, that worked better. A fridge magnet, a postcard, or a friendly check-in once or twice a year kept you front and center because there weren’t as many competing voices. But attention doesn’t work the same way anymore. Today, clients are hit with hundreds of messages daily, from brands, influencers, and, yes, other agents. Just being remembered isn’t enough. If you need proof, just look at what’s going on with the government shutdown. Politicians are absolutely top of mind right now, but that doesn’t mean people trust them or want to do business with them. The same thing happens in real estate. Being remembered without offering value makes you visible but irrelevant. So the challenge for agents today isn’t just staying top of mind. It’s staying top of mind in a way that’s useful, meaningful, and tied to value. One Way to Do That: Negotiate Group Discounts That Matter A few years back, when my team worked in a ski resort town, snow removal was a big concern for homeowners. We negotiated discounted annual service rates for our past clients with a local company. It didn’t cost us anything but coordination (and a slight discount for real estate services for the snow removal business owner), and it paid off big. Clients weren’t just reminded of us when the snow piled up, they actively felt the benefit of being part of our client community. This works beyond snow removal. In suburban areas, it might be lawn care or pest control. In cities, maybe parking discounts or moving services. The principle is the same: you’re not just the person who helped them buy a house, you’re the person who continues to improve their quality of life. That’s how you move from being remembered… to being relied on.