Hello All! I think everyone needs that one friend they can talk to about sex. The one who isn't going to blush, judge you, or act shocked when you ask the questions you've been carrying around for years. Well, let me be your hoe friend! 🍑🍆 For those of you I haven't met yet, I'm Deborah Kat, a sex and relationship coach, Certified Tantric Educator, and host of The Better Sex Podcast. For more than 20 years, I've been helping people have the best sex of their lives with the people they love. 💕 And I practice what I teach! My husband and I have been together for 27 years and married for just four months. We've had our share of conflict, disconnection, and moments when being lovers took a back seat to everyday life. We've also learned how to have the hard conversations, repair when things go sideways, and keep choosing each other. 💃🕺 Because great sex isn't magic. It's practice. And relationships are a practice, too. At the end of October, I'm launching a four-week couples course called From Roomates to Lovers: The Better Sex Reset. It's for couples who love each other but have gotten caught up in the business of living and want to find their way back to pleasure, play, and connection. But first, let's have a little fun together! Thursday, October 15, at 5:30 PM Pacific, I'm hosting From Roomates to Lovers, a 60-minute interactive workshop where we'll explore what happens when couples stop assuming they know each other and start getting curious again. 🎩🌟 The Skool Hub, I've got a little gift for you. You can join the workshop for free using the promo code Skool. I'd love to have you there. And if you're single, or this isn't what you need right now, perhaps you know a couple who could use a little more pleasure in their lives. Feel free to pass it along. Come join me Thursday! Your friendly neighborhood hoe friend.🐈‍⬛

🚨 BREAKING NEWS: Local couple discovers that loving each other and having a great sex life are not necessarily the same thing. Sources say the couple: ☐ Has discussed what's for dinner more often than what turns them on. ☐ Can coordinate an entire household but can't figure out how to initiate sex. ☐ Has mistaken being good roommates for being good lovers. ☐ Keeps waiting for the perfect mood to magically appear. ☐ Still finds each other attractive but has forgotten how to flirt. ☐ Has had the same argument about sex at least 47 times. In a surprising development, the couple discovers that great sex isn't magic. It's practice. In response, they signed up for From Roommates to Lovers, a live workshop on October 15 at 5:30 PM PT, free for members of the Better Sex Skool Community. Here's what I'll be teaching: 💋 Know Yourself: Get curious about what feels good, what turns you on, what you want, and what you actually have the capacity for. 💋 Ask for What You Want: Learn to make clear invitations without pressure, obligation, or turning a no into a relationship crisis. 💋 Receive Pleasure: Discover how to let affection, attention, and pleasure in without feeling like you have to immediately give something back. Possible side effects may include: ✔ More flirting in the kitchen. ✔ Less pressure to perform and more room to play. ✔ Actually telling your partner what you want. ✔ The occasional spontaneous make-out session. ✔ Remembering why you liked each other in the first place. Additional side effects: Increased curiosity, inappropriate grinning, more honest conversations, and discovering that being lovers is about a whole lot more than what happens in the bedroom. Want to join us? October 15 at 5:30 PM PT The workshop is free for members of the Better Sex Skool Community. Join the community here: https://www.skool.com/better-sex-9290/about

For the past couple of weeks, I've been experimenting with Muse AI to bring an idea to life that has been on my heart for a long time. I officially launched my new podcast, Rainy Day Window Talks with Maya & Jordan, on Spotify and Apple Podcasts. This podcast is about anxiety, depression, healing, and the conversations so many of us have quietly in our own minds. Creating it with AI allowed me to tell these stories in a way that feels authentic to me. If you know me, you know I'm always exploring what's possible with AI, so yes, this is an AI-created, audio-only podcast for now. If this topic resonates with you, I would truly appreciate your support. Please give it a listen, follow the podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, and let me know what you think. Your feedback means more to me than you know. Thank you for being part of this journey. ❤️ You can listen on either apple or spotify Click here to listen on 👉🏾 apple Click here to listen on 👉🏾 spotify

Are you spending too much time doing things AI could be helping you with? Today, Janay from AI Shoppe is joining us to talk about how we can leverage AI to simplify our businesses, get more done, and create more opportunities to generate income. Here's why you don't want to miss this conversation: You don't need more hours in your day. You need better ways to use the ones you have. Whether you're creating content, attracting clients, or building offers, AI can help you spend less time on busywork and more time doing the work that actually makes you money. Come discover what's possible, bring your questions, and leave with ideas you can put to work in your business! No gate keeping or community to join - just hop on in... 📅 Today, Thursday, October 8 ⏰ 2 PM Mountain Time 🔗 Join us on Zoom: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/82173053137?pwd=LvWmj0jftv7dmZv7xB0lKcaarU1YHs.1&jst=2 Your mission deserves more of your energy than your to-do list does. See you there!

💋 A Relationship Practice for Today: Notice Something You Like and Flirt! You love each other. You have a life together. You take care of the house, the bills, the kids, the pets, and all the things that keep life moving. But somewhere along the way, you stopped flirting. Kisses became quick pecks. Touch became less frequent. And sex became something you either negotiate, avoid, or wait to feel in the mood for. Here's something I want you to consider: Being lovers is a practice, not a relationship status. One of the things I've noticed in more than 20 years of working with couples is that people often wait for desire to show up before they do anything about their sex lives. They wait until they're less stressed, more rested, the kids are older, or life settles down. And in the meantime, they get really good at being roommates. But what if you didn't have to wait for the mood? What if you could start bringing a little more pleasure, flirting, and curiosity into your everyday life? Sometime today, notice one thing about your partner that you genuinely appreciate, enjoy, or find attractive. Then tell them. Add a little eye contact and a smile. It might be: - "I love hearing you laugh." - "You look really good in that shirt." - "I appreciated you making coffee this morning." And then let it be enough. Don't wait for a compliment in return. Don't turn it into a conversation about what's missing. Don't expect it to lead anywhere. You can create moments of connection without asking for more. It's a small way to start relating to each other as people you enjoy, not just partners managing a shared life. ❤️ October 15: From Lovers to Roommates Feel close, wanted, and turned on again, without pressure, obligation, or waiting for the perfect mood. I'm hosting a live workshop where we'll explore how couples drift from lovers into roommates and what it takes to find their way back. October 15 at 5:30 PM PT Free for members of the Better Sex Skool Community. I'd love to have you join me.