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Feral

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13 contributions to Feral
They punished you for it. Now you can charge for it.
I made you something and it didn't cost me anything except a few hours - and my last fuck to give. Three free tools. No email required. No pitch waiting at the end. Just you, your darkness, and finally some answers. Shadow Excavation Tool Five questions. Your shadow archetype. A clear map of exactly how your darkness becomes your weapon. Not your wound. Your weapon. Trauma Coaching Reality Check If you coach others through hard shit, you need to take this one. Twelve questions that tell you whether you're actually helping your clients or quietly making things worse. Most coaches are doing both and only know about one of them. Trauma to Trademark Generator The thing you've spent decades being ashamed of is the exact thing your clients can't find anywhere else. This shows you how to stop hiding it and start charging for it. You've been treating your damage like a liability. It's not. It never was. Go find out what it actually is. https://claude.ai/public/artifacts/fa601f17-e02c-4677-bb70-f1b12e7e7ec4
They punished you for it. Now you can charge for it.
1 like • 10d
These are genius even though I'm not in the coaching space. That said. Thank you for helping me to understand that even I could weaponise a wound/shadow/ what-have-you. Now I have some thinking to do.
Quick question
I'm trying to find out how many of you have done or are interested in learning shadow work for yourselves and/or your clients... There is a VERY specific structure to shadow work that actually gets results. Help a sister out. 😬
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1 like • 22d
I've done some shadow work for myself. Not sure how I'd use it in my particular business, though.
#StrippedDay5
Posted my new claim on IG, which I haven't been active on for a while 😅, and updated my profile on my yt channel as well! Feels great, aligned and like I'm unleashing my true self! xx 🔥 🐎 👑
#StrippedDay5
0 likes • Apr 30
#Stripped; Day5: put my new claim on my bio here and will be plopping it into the proper section of my Black Sheep Homestead publication on Substack in a few minutes. No reaction as of yet, but I didn't expect one this quickly, so..here we are.
#UnfairAdvantage Day One
The liability list... Every thing I've been told - directly or by omission - that is working against me in business. I'm too old. I'm too young. I'm not pretty enough. I'm too sexy to take seriously. I have too many offers. I offer too many different services. I've been doing this so long, I can't see a proper "niche" for myself anymore. I refuse to do live streams. I don't do toxic positivity or manifesting language so the industry doesn't want me. I'm too educated (BA and MA). I have too many varying certificates too. I swear and smoke. I live in my bathrobe. I'm too free with my opinions. I'm too blunt. I need to use kid gloves more. I need to be less compassionate and more straightforward (yup, been told both). My messaging is unclear. I'm too advanced for most coaches. People don't understand the importance of what I teach until they've spent all their money on a lesser coach who didn't help them. Not enough people care about integrity. They just want to make quick cash. I should lower my standards for my communities. I send too many emails. I could go on, but I'll stop here.
1 like • Apr 29
#UnfairAdvantage Day 1: Too old Not pretty enough Way too multi-talented for my own good Not professional enough Not warm enough personality wise Intimidating I don't sugar coat matters very well Too people-shy Can trot out 'the big words' at the drop of a hat Too sweary Too quiet Too soft-spoken Blah blah blah
Your Unfair Advantage
Who's ready to start the next mini course? I'm diving in later today. After I'm done with these cuties.
Your Unfair Advantage
1 like • Apr 28
Oh they're adorable! I wish I lived nearby, I would cheerfully volunteer as a puppy cuddler. I used to be an exhibitors assistant for a Rough and Smooth Collie breeder, and I always loved it when there were puppies around.
1 like • Apr 29
I went down the path of rescue after my last Collie passed. I seem to have inadvertently landed on rescuing former working dogs that got dumped in shelters, which is a trip.
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Deb Sweet
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@deb-sweet-7084
I am an app, planner and journal maker. I help you to see your chaos for what it is, and take your life back.

Active 5d ago
Joined Apr 23, 2026