Youâre not broken, youâre over-adapted
Theyâre disciplined.Theyâre consistent.Theyâve done the âright thingsâ for years. And yet, in midlife, something starts to feel off: ⢠mental clarity isnât as sharp⢠sleep doesnât fully restore ⢠digestion becomes unpredictable ⢠energy is less reliable ⢠stress lingers longer than it used to This isnât a motivation issue.It isnât a character flaw.And it isnât simply aging. Itâs autonomic inflexibility. Y Years of operating in high alert train the nervous system to become extremely efficient at stress â and inefficient at recovery. When the system loses flexibility, physiology follows. This is why rest alone doesnât solve the problem.This is why vacations donât create lasting change. And this is why many high performers feel âstuckâ despite doing everything right. The solution isnât to remove stress.Itâs to retrain the system that responds to it.