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✨ Week 6 – Reflection Questions
This week, we explore something many people fear deeply without fully realising it… Emotional avoidance. Not avoiding situations— but avoiding feelings. Take a moment and reflect honestly: – Which emotions feel hardest for me to sit with? (anger, sadness, loneliness, fear, vulnerability…) – What do I usually do when uncomfortable emotions arise? (overthink, distract myself, stay busy, withdraw, scroll, eat, work, numb…) – Do I allow myself to fully feel emotions… or do I quickly try to escape them? – What emotions were not welcomed in my childhood? → – What happened when I expressed strong feelings growing up? → Go deeper: – Am I afraid that if I truly feel something, it will overwhelm me? – Do I confuse emotional control with emotional strength? – Do I intellectualise my feelings instead of experiencing them? Notice your patterns: – Do I stay constantly busy to avoid myself? – Do I seek external stimulation when silence feels uncomfortable? – Do I struggle to sit alone with my emotions? And gently ask yourself: 👉 What am I trying not to feel? 💛 Emotional avoidance protects you from pain temporarily… but it also keeps you disconnected from yourself.
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The hardest thing for me is coming to terms with loneliness. Sometimes I think I’m handling it, but I’m not. I often feel lonely even when I'm around people, and it’s all just destroying me inside.
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I don't believe that anyone loves me, or that anyone truly cares about me. I think that just nobody... well, nobody loves me. That’s what I think, that’s what I feel—that I am not loved by anyone.I don't hold it against anyone, because it's nobody's fault. I think it comes down to my behavior. Even when I get into a relationship with a woman, I feel like I open up too much right away, like I'm being too pushy. I just feel like I reveal too much and it scares women away. I don't know, it's like I'm just too much, like I care too much right from the start.Or maybe I just subconsciously look for women who are a substitute for my grandmother from my childhood. That could also be the case.Subconsciously, I look for women who will recreate a sense of my childhood—feelings that I know from back when I was a kid, meaning constant stress, anxiety, unease, and the feeling that I am worthless and that I am nobody.
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