Greetings, I'm Cyndee, mama to 3 ND adults. My husband was military and I homeschooled all 3. Our oldest is 32. She has ADHD and dyslexia, our middle son is 30, ADHD, ASD-2 and Hydrocephalus. The baby will be 27 in August. He has ADHD and various learning challenges. Our daughter launched well and is an educational diagnostician in Texas. She is a single mom to a 2 year old little girl. Both sons are struggling at home. The biggest challenge is that my husband thinks it is fine if they play on the computer all day. He sees no reason for them to get out of the house and get jobs. Neither son has any friends. They are so unhappy and have seriously low self images. I am burned out from trying to help them as well as my 44 year old SIL who lives with us and is schizophrenic and has major anxiety and depression. My husband has PTSD and triggers easily. Always has, but it's gotten worse with age. My SIL and older son are on disability, and I am trying to get more help for them. I have a lot of health issues which are likely stress induced. 😩