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33 contributions to Autism ADHD Parent Launch
Let's Celebrate Wins
Let’s end the week and head into the weekend by noticing progress — even if it feels small. What is ONE thing your teen or young adult did this week that you want to recognize? (or if you did something...let's celebrate that) Maybe they: - Started something without being reminded - Had a good conversation with you - Went to work or school on a hard day - Tried something uncomfortable - Helped around the house - Applied for a job - Spent time outside their room - Handled a setback better than usual Sometimes progress doesn’t look dramatic. Sometimes it’s simply doing something today that was harder a few months ago. 👇 Share one win from your week — big or small. And if another parent shares something worth celebrating, give them a little encouragement too.
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@Karen Roseborough This is such a great win! 🙌 The fact that your son identified budgeting and making better spending choices as something HE wants to work on is huge. That kind of self-awareness and ownership is an important step toward greater independence. Also love that his behaviorist can help him build those skills.
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@Julie Verhagen This is HUGE! 🙌 Five months of job searching and now his first in-person interview—that’s absolutely a win. And I love your perspective. No matter how Tuesday goes, he’s getting real-world experience. Remember, to help him see victories from this by: just showing up, experiencing it, and learning from it. Definitely come back and let us know how it goes. We’ll all be rooting for him! 🤞
Would You Rather — Parent Edition 👇
If you could magically improve ONE of these areas for your teen or young adult starting tomorrow, which would you choose? A. Executive functioning OR motivation? B. Social confidence OR emotional regulation? C. Employment OR independent living skills? Pick one from each pair—or just choose the ONE area that would make the biggest difference right now. Then tell us why in the comments. I have a feeling a lot of parents here are dealing with the exact same thing...based on the answers could be this month's live training 😉
POA, health directive at 18 yo
Reaching out for help/suggestions on how to go about getting power of attorney and health directive in place so when my son turns 18, I'll still be able to help him with his healthcare, meds, etc.
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Cynthia, here is my suggestion: I would start with The Arc (the arc.org) especially their Center for Future Planning, and the National Resource Center for Supported Decision-Making. They have great resources to help families understand what changes at 18 and the different options available, including supported decision-making, healthcare releases, power of attorney, and guardianship when necessary. You can also look up your state’s Disability Rights organization. They may be able to provide guidance or connect you with free or lower-cost resources in your area. I’d would think through what areas he is likely to need help with as an adult—healthcare, medications, appointments, finances, education, benefits, transportation, etc. Then, a final suggestion would be meeting with a special-needs or disability attorney in your state. They would be able to ensure every is legal and ensure i’s are dotted and t’s crossed.
Presentation
My name is Gina Ruiz. My child is a 21-year-old young adult. She is autistic, has high abilities, and also struggles with anxiety and depression. The biggest challenge we are facing right now is helping her become more independent and strengthen her executive functioning skills. She also recently ended a three-year relationship, so I want to support her through this breakup in a healthy way, especially because making and maintaining friendships can be difficult for her. What I want most for my daughter is for her to become a happy, independent, and functional adult. I want her to be able to build and maintain long-lasting friendships, continue her education and graduate in Psychology, and develop the skills she needs to succeed and remain stable in a job. One thing I hope to get from this community is guidance and practical strategies to help her develop stronger executive functioning and social skills, become more independent, and navigate this new stage of her life after her breakup.
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Welcome, Gina! I’m really glad you joined. It sounds like your daughter has a lot of strengths and potential, and at the same time, she’s navigating several big transitions all at once. One thing I hope you’ll find here is that independence doesn’t have to happen all at once. We can help our young adults build it step by step, while still giving them the support they need along the way. I also love that your goal isn’t simply for her to “function,” but to build a life where she is happy, connected, and able to pursue what matters to her. You’re definitely in the right place. I’m looking forward to supporting you and learning more about your daughter!
Appropriate 1% step this week?
My 23 year son lives on his own. He sleeps and plays games sporadically throughout the day and night. I have been trying for 9 months to get him to go to sleep at night and set his alarm to wake up in the morning so that he can do things during the day. Nothing has worked and I am thinking of getting him a flip phone so that he can't play all night. I am open to any ideas and if changing to a flip phone temporarily makes sense. Thank you.
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I can definitely understand why you’re considering the flip phone after trying for so long. One thing I would be cautious about, though, is making the phone itself the main issue. Since he’s 23 and living independently, taking away access may create more conflict without necessarily addressing why his sleep schedule has shifted so much. I’d be more curious about what his days currently feel like to him. Is there anything he wants to be awake for? Anything he’s working toward? Sometimes the sleep/gaming pattern is less about the phone and more about having very little pulling someone into the daytime. You might have better luck starting with one small anchor instead of trying to fix his entire sleep schedule at once—one consistent morning commitment, appointment, activity, or responsibility that matters to him. I’d focus first on creating a reason to get up, then work backward toward the sleep routine.
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@Dana Dykes That’s a really good question. I wouldn’t automatically call it enabling. The better question is: Is the support helping him build a skill, or is it permanently replacing a skill he could eventually learn? If the coach is simply waking him up every workday with no plan to increase his independence, then yes, over time it could become something he depends on. But if the coach is using that support as a bridge—helping him practice a routine, identify what gets in the way, use alarms/checklists, and gradually need less assistance—then it can actually be scaffolding. I’d look for a plan that slowly fades the support rather than removing it all at once. The goal isn’t “do it alone immediately.” The goal is “need less help over time.”
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Blake Baumann
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