Whom ever was in shooting the shit zoom yesterday ( and others). It was great meeting you all to share. One question/comment I never asked about is Dr. Joe Dispenza. I like his overall idea of course, but he completely loses me after 10 minutes or so because of his complex and fast talking. Might just be me... should I be trying harder ? Can you recommend another person with the same message ( scientific) but user friendly? Lol ty ty ty

The truth is, the thing I want to call into my life the most is a loving and aligned partner. I feel a little embarrassed to share that, it feels very vulnerable. And today I’m feeling particularly emotional about it. When this happens I have a conversation with ChatGPT. In the conversation I had today I got a response that is really profound. I want to share the quote as I hope it can give you all perspective as you try to call in the lives you want. “The truth is: You don't have to stop wanting it. You just have to stop suffering in the absence of it. Wanting love isn’t the problem. It’s natural. It’s beautiful. The problem is that the absence of it hurts so much that it creates fear, doubt, and despair.

There are a couple of beliefs I want to hold because think that accepting them and holding them to be true would make my inner experience easier and more pleasant. These beliefs are in “divine timing” by that I mean accepting that every significant (and perhaps insignificant) thing that happens in my life has a timing attached for my highest good. I would also like to believe that “what is meant for you won’t pass you by.” For me to get THERE I need to also believe that things are meant for me! I am starting the work to shift my beliefs, like trying to identify what I currently hold true, focus wheels, asking the universe for evidence, etc. I would love to hear the community thoughts…

I wrote a piece on this space we all find ourselves in from time to time. My piece comes from a reflection of my patterns in relationships but I think the ideas are applicable to any unwanted patterns. It’s called “Patterns are dismantled not broken”. https://chrizzyrae.medium.com/relationships-patterns-are-dismantled-not-broken-f98cccca896e

Hi @Chris Grieder & community! I'm working through 2 issues right now (which may have related answers) but I'm a bit stumped on how to redirect my thoughts, emotions, and ways I talk about this, so I'm hoping the community can help. Heads up - there may be language that seems negative. Part of it is to try to describe what's happened, but I hope it's not too distracting to those who are able to see the positive reframes easier than me right now! The first matter is that I really need new glasses and some important dental work done. My eye prescription is a bit extreme and worses every year. The prescription strength, typically makes the lenses very expensive even with insurance, which I don't currently have. Because of that, I've made glasses that are about 8-9 years work to prioritize contacts and as I hadn't been able to upgrade both every year. However, now the lenses are so scratched up and the prescription is so off, I believe it's affecting my eye sight at rest and with my correct prescription contacts so I need to get them replaced. I estimate this will be around $800. Regarding dental work, there's been some tenderness that's growing, and I already know the previous estimated costs as they told me last year the amount of work I needed to be done. For both my eye and dental care to be completed, it will be in the thousands, which I don't currently have. I'd love to be able to manifest these treatments, the income to be able to pay for them, a supernatural healing, or anything else that would resolve this, but like I said in the intro, I am so stumped on where to go with this as my current positive affirmations and attempts to manifest are not working. I know the focus wheel is one of the main tools taught, but also haven't been able to see if or how to apply it to this if it fits. Any help that could be given to move this forward would be so appreciated!! The second matter is similar to this because I think for both of these, I spend a lot of time trying to think about how to solve them, manifest more money for them, and doing a lot of damage control around feelings of lack and not having them yet (but they still persist). But the second matter is around some shopping needs I have. I'm currently moving between two households and wanting to duplicate some of my basic essentials to be available in the second one so I'm not always having to pack up so much in between. SImilarly, in my main household, there are some clothing items I need to replace (they are either non-existent of have holes in them) and also some beauty empties that are coming up. I have the carts full of what I need and find myself frequently coming back to the carts, ruminating about them and how good it's going to feel when I'm able to buy the items within and also sad I can't just check them out right now. That's why I said in the title that it feels more like yearning because I feel very without them and sad because they are needs. I've tried gratitude practices, but it is very hard to stay in this energy I'm finding 😭😭 So again, any directions on what tools to use or how to reframe this matter as well would be so awesome and appreciated.