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🔥[CLOSED] Looking for: Community Manager for ADHD Harmony
Hey everyone! I'm looking for someone to help me manage this community. As we grow, I want to make sure everyone here feels supported, stays engaged, and actually gets results. I can't keep up with everything myself anymore, so I'm looking for someone to help. What you'd do: - Respond to posts and questions daily - Welcome new members and help them find their way - Check in with quiet members via DM - Celebrate wins and keep the energy up - Come up with ideas and challenges to keep things fun - Let me know what's working and what members need You're a good fit if you: - Have ADHD (or close experience with it) and want to help others thrive - Enjoy connecting with people online - Communicate well in writing - Can work independently What you get: - Full access to all ADHD Harmony programs - Work directly with me - Small monthly fee (early stage — grows as we grow) - Chance to actually help people change their lives Feeling like the GIF below right now? Drop a "✋" in the comments and I'll reach out 🙋 Questions? Also drop them below 👇
🔥[CLOSED] Looking for: Community Manager for ADHD Harmony
5 likes • Jan 29
@Jim Ebbelaar not sure if you've made a decision, lots of lovely people have already thrown their hat in the ring, but in case you haven't I will toss my cap into the mix too. Discovered that I was lied to 30 odd years ago by doctors telling me not only do girls NOT get ADHD (BTW, yes, your daughter has it) and more than 6 times as many boys have it, (your daughter has 10 of the 11 markers) and women don't have it because girls grow out of it at puberty. Plus now I've started wrangling the squadron of 16 highly caffeinated squirrels playing quidditch in my head 24/7 (boys was I surprised to find out that wasn't what everyone has!) I've established a 4-week course to guide women through the noise and clutter in their heads, to reconnect with their own inner voice and intuition. So I have the time!
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@Elena Barely pattern recognition detects spamming?
The dopamine spiral almost got me yesterday..
I honestly can't remember the last time I had a bad day. But yesterday was the day. It didn't arrive with a bang. It crept in. I wanted to take it easy, do nothing for once, and within an hour the nothing turned into boredom. Out of that boredom I started snacking on stuff I knew would make me feel worse, and it did, almost instantly. Then I picked up my phone and started scrolling. Ten minutes in I was completely dopamine-depleted. Empty. Like someone had quietly unplugged me. So I did what I tell other people not to do. I reached for more of the same. I opened a video game. The last time I did that was December 2024. More than a year and a half ago. I didn't realize that until I was already sitting there like a zombie, not even enjoying it. Funny how the brain reaches for the exact habit it used to lean on when it's hurting. While I was sitting there feeling nothing, I looked at the community. It's been growing like crazy. Yesterday we hit number 9 in Discovery across the entire Skool platform!! I looked at the number and felt nothing. And for a split second i even thought, why am i even doing this? What's the point? Rationally I knew that was nonsense. I knew it in the moment. But knowing something does absolutely nothing for the way you feel when you're in it. You can be self-aware and still stuck. Awareness alone doesn't pull you out. So I stood up. I walked to the window and just stared outside for a while. I was thinking of two options. One was easy: crawl into bed, pull the curtains, and let the day get worse. Sink deeper into it. The other one I couldn't even see the end of. It just meant doing one thing, any thing. 2024 me would've picked option 1, but.. I just looked for the smallest possible action and DID IT. I walked over to my bed and grabbed my Eight Sleep, the mattress that regulates my temperature at night so I actually get deep sleep. Amazing thing by the way, even if it's stupidly expensive. Next to it was the filter. It had been sitting on my nightstand for three months. I kept walking past it, telling myself it was a whole job, that I'd get to it later. I finally swapped it. It took ten seconds. Ten seconds. And it gave me this tiny, real hit of dopamine.
The dopamine spiral almost got me yesterday..
10 likes • 6d
Great share, thank you. Hearing someone else talk about how they spiral, what they're experiencing and how they felt is real and reaffirming that we're really not doing this alone, and we're not 'broken', just facing our reality for our wiring and dealing with things in a different way to those who don't have our wiring.
Read this if you feel behind.
Quick truth: There is no "behind" in this challenge. That's a story your brain made up the moment you missed a day. And I get it. We are world-class at turning one missed session into a full-blown identity crisis. "I always do this." "I never finish anything." "Why did I even sign up." Stop and breathe for a minute.. Read the next line slowly: The challenge is not a train you missed. It's a room you can walk into whenever you're ready. Everything is still in the classroom. And the funny things is: Almost everyone misses a day. But what about the people with those big transformations? They're the ones who fell off as well. Felt the shame. And came back anyway. That is the rep that matters. That's the one that rewires you. Because every time you've quit something in the past, you taught your nervous system one thing: "We don't finish things." Today you get to teach it the opposite. Open the classroom. Press play on the next session. That's it. That's the whole task. Your transformation report is waiting on the other side of the questions. You're not behind. You're exactly where the comeback starts. 💛 Jim
Read this if you feel behind.
13 likes • May 1
@Tyra Sammons Lane I completely relate to what you're saying, and experiencing. I have a few years on (12) and I have the stories, and the depleted bank account to show for it. I want to believe, and do believe, and then good old 'Sceptic Steve' sneaks in and starts muttering, 'Wait for it, wait for it, it's coming, just wait...'
8 likes • May 1
Hey @Albert Schepis don't worry about the 'challenge'. Take a look around, let me know if I can help - I spend most of my day guiding people through things like this, and completely get the whole distaste for hype. I'm also the same vintage as you, only discovered my different wiring and operating system last year, and know there's no 'quick fix' because we're not broken. I describe myself as being a dolphin living in a world designed for and built by monkeys, and being judged on how well I climb a tree or peel a banana. Give me the open ocean instead, and let's see how those monkeys go.
How to actually start tasks when your ADHD brain won't let you
@Vicky Salisbury @Tia ColemanCarr @Donna Bjurlin @Simon Sharpe @Dorothea Habtamu @Mary Christou @Joan Jones @Linda Hernandez @Mads Munk @Heather Jensen you all mentioned task initiation, motivation, procrastination, or feeling overwhelmed by everything on your plate. We covered this during the Q&A so here's the breakdown. The main message: most productivity advice is way too simplistic. A new Notion dashboard or switching to a different app is not going to fix it. That's putting a bandaid on a broken system. The Harmony Productivity System works in layers, and skipping layers is why most approaches fail. Also see the attached image for reference. Layer 1: Regulation first. You can have the best system in the world, but if you sleep badly, you won't be productive. Period. The first domino is always: optimize sleep, add some movement (releases dopamine naturally), improve nutrition. Without a regulated nervous system, nothing else works. This is why so many of you feel like you "can't start." Your brain literally doesn't have the fuel. Layer 2: Purpose & Alignment. Once regulation is handled, figure out what actually lights you up. You don't need your full life purpose right now. Just arrange things so what you do is at least somewhat aligned with who you are. @Heather Jensen this is your situation. If your current job drains you, that's okay, but have a plan for what you're working toward. Knowing the "why" behind the grind makes the grind bearable. Layer 3: Two Big Rocks. Don't set 10 goals. Pick two. Mine are my health and my business. Everything else follows from keeping those two on track. @Mary Christou , this is the answer to "what should I focus on?" Fewer priorities means more follow-through. Pick two, let everything else be secondary.
How to actually start tasks when your ADHD brain won't let you
14 likes • Apr 8
It's so refreshing to read something that actually takes all the differences of our brain wiring into account. The Dopamine Gap, the Executive Function (or lack of), the Time Blindness... thanks @Jim Ebbelaar
Looking for 10 beta test users new AI
What's up, ADHD Harmony fam! I'm looking for 10 beta testers to try our brand new free AI-powered onboarding experience. We've built a powerful new assessments that will become the starting point for everyone doing the 5-Day Challenge going forward. What you'll be testing: 1. Your ADHD Snapshot (~25 min) 9 deep questions across three dimensions: Your ADHD Story, The Hidden Cost, and Why You're Here Now. At the end, our AI generates a personalized portrait of your ADHD experience. 2. The ADHD Awakening Assessment (~45 min) 15 questions that go even deeper across five dimensions: The Truth About Your Brain, Your Invisible Identity Cage, Rewriting Your Internal Code, The Harmony Reset, and Your Path Forward. This one maps out where you actually are right now: your patterns, your strengths, your limiting beliefs, and what your ideal life actually looks like. You'll get a full AI-generated psychological portrait that connects all the dots. This is the same assessment as the previous 5-Day Challenge, but potentially even richer since it uses the new ADHD snapshot assessment as extra context. You'll be doing this on the new Harmony AI platform, the same environment our paid program members use. You'll have access to the two worksheets only, not the other features. Who I'm looking for: - 5 people who have already done the 5-Day Challenge but want to experience the new assessment flow on the new platform - 5 people who are already in this community but haven't done the challenge yet (or missed it and have been wanting to jump in) How to apply: Drop "REDO" (if you already did the challenge) or "NEW "(if you are new and want to give this a try) in the comments below and I'll pick 10 people at random from the list. 💛 Jim
Looking for 10 beta test users new AI
4 likes • Mar 28
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