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7 contributions to Project More Peace™
Fake it until you make it? Or be real?
"A leader is always up...even when they're down"... That's what someone told me years ago when I was having a bad day. I still have mixed feelings about that statement, because it could be interpreted two different ways: . Be fake and act like everything is going great. . Don't let your negativity rub off on the group. How do you interpret it? This weekend my church had a big event in North Carolina... as president of the photography team, I feel bad for missing it. But I don't want my negative energy to rub off on the team, so I've thought about "faking it" until I feel better...but I hate being fake...and I'm starting to think that being real in this time of vulnerability would be a net positive for everybody involved. I'm sure the team photographed the event beautifully, and I'm grateful for that. --- Do you think this experience relates to parenting as a form of leadership? You ever feel yourself "faking it until you make it" so your kid won't see you down? Have you considered that being vulnerable with them would show them how to be vulnerable with you? Let me know in the comments.
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1 like • Mar 9
@Devin Trent Absolutely.
1 like • Mar 9
@Devin Trent Thanks a lot.
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2 likes • Mar 8
@Devin Trent Greetings. I looked at the child personality quiz and I'm realizing that Thando the younger brother is both explorer and dutiful.
1 like • Mar 8
@Devin Trent oh I meant the following instructions part.
Do you think kids experience time the same way adults do?
Have you ever told your child to do something “in a minute”… and somehow that minute never came? Not because they didn’t care. Not because they were being defiant. Sometimes it’s because kids don’t experience time the same way adults do. I shared a short video today about time blindness, and it explains why “later” so often turns into frustration, even when kids genuinely want to do the right thing. If this idea feels familiar, you can watch it here when you have a quiet moment: 👉 [Youtube Link] I'm curious to know: Where do time-based instructions feel hardest in your home right now?
1 like • Feb 25
I have noticed a change, understanding that they're not doing it on purpose has definitely given me a different perspective. Simple example, they'll take like an hour to wash small dishes while one is washing and the other wiping and they have other things to do like homework.
1 like • Feb 25
Yes, thank you. This time thing was really bothering me.
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3 likes • Jan 3
Congratulations sister. ❤️. This platform is definitely a gift . It gives us the courage to really look at ourselves and start making the right changes. The kids will benefit from that I believe.
3 likes • Jan 4
I will do that sister. We thank God.
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2 likes • Nov '25
My name is is Boitshepo, I live I South Africa. I have two nephews one just turned 13 and the other one is 11. I want to do this parenting thing right, grow and change wherever I need to. I worry too much and stop them from doing things, if it was up to me they'd probably do nothing. I'm looking forward to developing healthy habits letting go of the bad ones.
1 like • Nov '25
@Devin Trent Greetings brother we thank God .
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I'm an aunt of two boys, moved in with my sister after her husband died. So I also play a parenting role and I need to do it right.

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Joined Nov 19, 2025
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