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The Identity Lab
77 members • $8/month
48 contributions to The Identity Lab
Jun 17 •
😱 I’m Going Through A Spiritual Apocalypse
Hey!! I know I been MIA. But this happened 😩. (See photo. ) My mother is also in the hospital. She had to get her OTHER leg amputated. Yes OTHER 🥺 It’s a lot going on over here. Im pretty sure I’m in the midst of an identity shift. In the Identity Reconstruction course, I call this a spiritual apocalypse. It’s like the Tower moment in Tarot. When beliefs shift, the earth moves and timeline jumps occur. I’m fine though. I’m alchemizing all of this. I’ve been wanting a new car, so a way being created to get it FYI my car caught fire in the headlight. I’m happy I wasn’t in it. Once things are settled, I’ll be hosting a live class. I’m calling it Creator recoding. If you want to change identity, you have to change your language. So we’ll be doing that once a month. Thank you for your patience . P.S. Please keep me & my mom in positive thoughts.
1 like • 29d
You and your mom are in my thoughts. Sending you both healing vibes. 💜
Jun 8 •
7 Day Identity Challenge Complete
We just completed our 1st 7 Day Identity Challenge For those who are just seeing this. I challenged the members to do something everyday this week which represented them being in their identity PUBLICALLY! Meaning, someone needs to 👉🏽witness you being who you claim to be. Not for validation…… for confronting the nervous system. For those who participated, how was it INTERNALLY? Did it feel natural or forced? For me, it happened naturally. I unintentionally had a long consultation with someone in the dm about the process identity transformation . I even shared something I teach in the Identity Reconstruction course: the process of belief conversion. It felt refreshing. I felt alive & energized. This was different for me because I’m usually using content creation for identity, but this time it was more private. So this was new for me. How was it for you? P.S. this one was pretty “easy”. Next month will be a little harder. Meaning, I will challenge to you make a SPECIFIC type of content publically.
2 likes • Jun 8
For me, the conversations themselves feel very natural. I genuinely enjoy connecting with other moms, hearing their stories, asking questions, and helping them uncover what’s really keeping them stuck. Those conversations energize me because I’m passionate about who I serve and the transformation I believe is possible for them. Where I notice hesitation is when the conversation shifts into selling. Sharing, listening, and serving feel aligned. Asking someone to invest can sometimes feel more difficult. As I’ve reflected on it, I don’t think it’s because I doubt the value of the transformation. I think it’s more that I’m still growing into the identity of someone who fully owns the value of what I offer. There are moments where I catch myself questioning whether I’m asking for too much, undervaluing my work, or needing more proof before I can confidently make an offer. This challenge has helped me realize that the discomfort isn’t really in the conversation itself. The discomfort is in fully trusting my own value and allowing myself to be seen as the person who can guide that transformation. So the conversations feel natural. The invitation to invest is the part that’s helping me see where my own identity work is still unfolding.
Jun 4 •
Today is Day 4 of the Identity Challenge.
This week, your challenge is to publicly do something from the identity you claim to be. As an example and demonstration, see my screenshot in the comments. It’s showing a dm conversation. I practiced being in the identity of an identity transformation strategist by having a free DM consultation with someone. The purpose was not to make a sale. The purpose was embodiment. Embodiment is what creates everything else. A lot of y’all are waiting for some external sign before you allow yourself to BE in your identity, and that is backwards. You create the receipts of your identity by DOING. Your nervous system adapts to who you repeatedly allow yourself to be. Then your reality wraps itself around 👉🏽YOU. So today, I want you to screenshot one thing you did publicly this week from the identity you are claiming to BE and post it below. I went first in the comments. FYI: my goal is to continue having these conversations all week.
1 like • Jun 8
@Marquita Buchanan Thank youuu
2 likes • Jun 8
@Marquita Buchanan Yay! This is great! Congratulations and keep going! 🫶🏾
Apr 7 •
Here’s Why I’ve Been Quiet: A Necessary Reset in My Work
If you’ve noticed that I’ve been a little quiet in here, I want to be transparent about why. I’m in a season of exhaustion. After years of teaching, building, and leading—especially around getting paid to speak—I’ve reached a point where I can no longer hold that space the way I was. It requires a level of output, explanation, and energy that I’m not available for right now. So I’m making a decision. I’m simplifying. I’m returning to what I know works, what flows naturally, and what I’ve been anchored in for over a decade: Names. Identity. And the path of Self-realization. This is the foundation of everything I teach. Transforming your self realization into income is a byproduct of that. If you’ve been wanting deeper support, especially around stepping into your voice or hosting your own event, you can reach out to me directly to discuss what options are available. That pathway isn’t gone—I’m just not leading with it right now. Right now, I’m prioritizing my mental state and health. I trust that the ones who are aligned will understand. P. S. I’ll still be posting in here when inspired. But I need rest & space right now. Thanks for understanding. — Dr. Kimesha
4 likes • Apr 7
I initially connected with you because I was inspired by your gift of reading names. I also wanted to learn from your identity and self-realization work. Continue to use your gifts to help others and you will find your way. 💕
Mar 29 •
Which Steps Have You Completed??
I was about to schedule the next live class for building your $1,000 event… but before I do that, I need to see where you actually are. I’ve already given you: - Step 1: Pricing (Revenue Calculator) - Step 2: Problem + Offer (AI Prompt) - Step 3: Market + Positioning So let’s make this simple: 👉 Which step have you fully completed? And when you answer, 👉 Show me the result - What price did you land on? - What problem are you solving? - Who is your audience + what makes you different? If you haven’t completed any of these steps: 👉 Are you aware of what’s actually making you feel unsafe to execute?? Because I can almost guarantee that your reason for lack of execution is NOT what you’re saying it is. It is lack of nervous system safety which at its root is identity confusion. This is not to shame you. This is to increase self awareness. P.S. I’m not moving to the next step until I see who’s actually in motion. Dr. Kimesha
1 like • Mar 30
According to my revenue calculator, for my virtual event, I would charge $47. My current coaching program is $1800. I would offer an event-only price of 50% off to live attendees only. The problem I solve, is internal identity fragmentation that causes people to start and stop, doubt themselves, overthink decisions, and delay execution of the life they know they are meant to build. I work with stay-at-home mothers, 0–5 years postpartum. They are high-capacity women who want to launch their own business. I am an identity strategist who brings motherhood, metaphysics and MBA-grade structure who guides through lived experience, my own transformation, and the reality of building a business while raising a family.
1 like • Mar 31
@Dr. Kimesha McDowell I've been working on this for a while now and working on regulating my nervous system by taking aligned action (even in fear). So, I feel safe executing.
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@bianka-burke-7175
Founder of The Maven Matriarch, MBA candidate, wife, and mom building businesses that empower women to thrive through leadership, purpose and impact.
Active 27d ago
Joined Nov 13, 2025
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