Hello dear friends! How is everyone doing? I'm flying to Ireland tonight, visiting my son who's there for a semester abroad...soooooo excited to spend time with him! In the meantime, I'm planning out topics for the next few weeks, and I'd love your input. What would you like us to cover next? Some ideas: - Dating mindset shifts (for those moments when you are ready to give up) - Learning to trust again after a tough divorce or breakup - Crafting a compelling online profile - Something totally different? Drop your ideas below—your input shapes our sessions! See you soon! Dessi ❤️

Let's get to know each other! Comment below sharing where you are in the world, a photo of you , and something you like to do for fun. 😊 This post contains important information about getting the most out of this community, so please read through everything before you start. 👓 ✨ Read Through Our Community Guidelines ✨ First and foremost, please read through our Community Guidelines to ensure this remains a valuable, supportive space for everyone. Quick Summary: - Be respectful and kind - No soliciting or self-promotion - Keep it relevant to dating/relationships - Protect privacy - no sharing screenshots - What's shared here, stays here 📈 How To Earn Points, Level Up & Unlock Rewards 📈 Our community is designed around participation. You'll unlock new resources and perks as you engage, support, and help other members. How Points Work: - One 'like' = One point - The more you interact and contribute quality content, the more points you earn - Your level is shown at the bottom right of your avatar picture - Points needed for next level shown under your avatar on your profile page 💎 Important Note About DMs 💎 The ability to DM other community members is unlocked at Level 2 (Cotton). So if you want to stay connected and build relationships in this community, start earning your first points now! Please contact me with any comments, suggestions, or questions. I read everything! Let's reboot your love life together, Dessi 💕

Hey everyone — let's celebrate your WINS from the past seven days! 🎉 Each week, we pause to acknowledge the progress, not perfection. Because success in dating (and in life) is all about small, aligned actions that move us forward. So… what are your wins from the past week? Big or small — they all count! Think things like: *Scheduled a first date *Joined a new singles group *Updated my profile or added new photos *Smiled or started a convo with someone at the gym *Said yes to something I would normally say no to *Practiced a little more compassion twds myself...etc. Drop your wins below 👇 — and remember, this is a brag-safe zone. We cheer for each other here. What’s one thing you did in the past 7 days that made you feel a little more open, confident, or connected? PS. Let's keep it positive...there will be other opportunities to share challenges 😃