Unlearning What I learned from my Southern Religious Upbringing... Realizing half my “I don’t like that” was actually “I was taught that was sinful.” Turns out unlearning church guilt is part of the pleasure curriculum. 😅

One of the things I marvel at is how everything on this planet wants to be noticed, and how everything has it’s preferred way to be noticed. From the way the flowers bloom to attract bees, to the way the birds sings songs, to the drama of the ocean, calling all who play in it. It’s shameless! Why do we (humans) shame being noticed? In what ways do you like to be noticed? Feel free to share a photo of you being noticeable well as your thoughts!

Hello Pleasure Cronies! I would love some advice on how to breakthrough a pleasure constraint for me. I have a period of time coming up (starting this afternoon) where I need to spend a lot of time doing tedious work on the computer such as spreadsheets and the like. Unfortunately, I’m currently the only person who can do this work, but it’s extremely painful for me. It makes my skin itch and my fingers ache. I greatly enjoy almost every other form of mundane work whether it’s spending days on my hands and knees weeding or designing marketing materials on my computer. This particular work just makes me want to explode. But I do need to do it. I can’t pass my landscaping contractors license without breaking through this barrier. Does this resonate with anyone? If so, I would love suggestions on how to make this feel overflowing with pleasure!

When was the last time your body surprised you with pleasure in an unexpected place? Take a few moments to reflect on nonsexual sources of delight—like light on skin, wind, or scent—and share how they might inform your erotic map. You might want to journal about this one. We are trained to ignore these little nudges from the body.

It’s Friday. Let’s have a little fun! If you could instantly become empowered by ONE erotic superpower, what would it be, and WHY? Don’t overthink it. Just drop the first thing that hits your mind. 😎 Mine: The ability to look at someone for 5 seconds and pass them an orgasm that would change their entire life without even touching them. Alright…Your turn. GO, GO, GO