Artur Rozmysł

Oi Max, I’m a big fan of your straight-talking style! Snapped a few shots from my afternoon workout — classic hunter gatherer gym vibes. But wanna know the cheeky upgrade? It’s not just about getting up at silly o’clock to train — 5, 6, 7, you do you — it’s about sneaking in three cold approaches while you’re at it. That way, by the time most folks are having their second coffee, you’re already buzzing physically and socially. Total power move 😎

Artur Rozmysł

1 like • Apr '25

Spot on, that’s Las Kabacki! And to be fair, cold approaching there doesn’t have to be some massive challenge. If you’re out for a workout, you can pretty much count on getting at least one good opportunity to chat to someone.

Max Orlewicz

Apr '25 •

General discussion

First video up on the Tube

https://youtu.be/FXBhwSPb7C4?si=mMIM_pbLXdTQwG36

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Artur Rozmysł

1 like • Apr '25

Ngl I’ve watched your video a few times now — definitely a fan xD Fair play to you for keeping it raw and personal, that kind of authenticity isn’t easy to pull off. I know time’s tight in a TED-style format and what you said carried weight, I see where you’re coming from. But I wasn’t nodding all the way through. Especially that bit about military service coming off as some kind of quick fix — whether we messed up by looking for cheat codes or ditched it altogether — I’m not fully sold. After ten years of being force-fed whatever the school system throws at you, that just feels like salt in the wound, y’know? That bit about porn — maybe it’s just the tip of the iceberg? Feels more like a symptom than the actual issue. We’ve all become proper content junkies, chasing little dopamine hits every few minutes. It’s not just porn — it’s reels, stories, memes, clickbait, all of it just a swipe away, sitting in your pocket 24/7. You could easily argue, though, that mobile phone bans in schools are nothing short of smoke screens. Funny thing, I dabbled in film when I was a teenager — shot something at 17, years later made it onto Filmweb, though it’s hardly something to shout about. I see nothing wrong in your approach of bypassing formal education, there were many acclaimed filmmakers who did not attend film schools, Werner Herzog to name just one. And hey, have you ever looked into psychometric tests like Gallup, DISC, or anything Jungian? With a bit of AI thrown into the mix, they can actually be a brilliant way to get your head around your own patterns — especially handy not just for when you’re moving out of mum’s basement :))

Artur Rozmysł

1 like • Apr '25

PS https://www.masterclass.com/classes/werner-herzog-teaches-filmmaking 😅

Max Orlewicz

Apr '25 •

General discussion

Platonic vs. traditional cold approach

Clinical Psychologist Abdul Saad: “An authentic grounded man is comfortable with putting his sexual agenda on the table if he is attracted to a woman. He doesn’t have to hide his feelings behind a veneer of niceness. If there’s attraction there, if there’s a spark there, an authentic grounded man will make that known.” Social circle expert Michael Sartain on showing intent: "Intent has failed guys and is the number 1 thing pick-up gets wrong about female attraction. Preselection will do most of the heavy lifting for you. In fact, preselection is responsible for 80% of whether or not a woman is attracted to you." I agree with both of these gentlemen but only with the former when it comes to NICE guys. First off, learning cold approach is non-negotiable. -> So do we do it with or without expressing intent? It depends on where you are in your journey, what level. What Sartain says works for me now, but it wouldn't have 5 years ago. It works for me now because I'm no hyper agreeable NICE guy anymore. Let’s put it this way: Can you transform from hyper agreeable NICE guy to confident leader who makes women laugh without ever learning and experiencing what it’s like to express intent? Perhaps. BUT... and this is a big BUT-- Making their sexual attraction for women known is the No. 1 obstacle hyper agreeable NICE guys must overcome to dip their toe in the water. The fact they are sexual beings to begin with (in accordance with a man's biology) is Level numero uno #1. You can ditch intent later as you level up--matter of fact you should, and Michael is spot on. However, skipping it will make the transformation take way longer, and that's best case scenario. Worst case: you never actually make the transformation to begin with. I see it with guys who are trying to apply platonic cold approach as part of Michael's social circle game without ever having done any traditional cold approach (pick-up). It's a lot harder for them. Why? They have not sufficiently desensitized themselves to rejection that's predicated on them being a sexual human being. As you begin doing cold approach, being platonic might be all you can stomach. But again, there are levels to this, MANY MANY MANY levels.

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Artur Rozmysł

1 like • Apr '25

@Max Orlewicz I’ve been pretty irregular at it recently, actually when I think of it now the two recent approaches kind of just happened and one of them had as you called it „practicing social skills” frame — this perspective is a game changer and we should make room for this practice daily… maybe it’s me but generally I’d say I find it sort of challenging in Warsaw, though. What about your day game practice?

Artur Rozmysł

1 like • Apr '25

@Max Orlewicz You’ve got a point — maybe I’m being a bit unfair to Warsaw. It’s probably just a different frame of mind I get into when I’m racing through the city with all my daily errands. I’ve had plenty of successes here, when it comes to cold approach, I can’t deny it. Time to get rid of the excuses, haha!

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