What are you looking for in a man and which answers and green flags do you want to see from him during the vetting process? I’m new to all of this so any suggestions are welcome

Salam girlies, hope you are all well. I wanted to ask if any of you experience pressure when you actually put yourself out there it could be a normal thing but interally just knowing that you are socialising and all to be open to opportunities how do you deal with that? Especially if you were never this aware of it. Also, how do you deal with realising that things may not work out knowing you've put in effort into it?

Assalamu alaykom sisters, i’m new here and the reason i joined this group is because i live in a non muslim country and i’m a revert alhamdulillah but i don’t know any muslims in real life so where am I supposed to find a husband? I’ve tried dating apps like muzz but they are a waste of time for me and don’t like the idea of me talking to a lot of men before finding the right one also he will be talking and seeing a lot of girls on these apps so i don’t think thats the man i’m looking for I’ve been going in circles for years now please help, is there a matchmaker you trust or something like that? Jazakun Allah Khayran