One of the biggest myths I hear from parents is: ❌ "Every child should be potty trained by age 3." The truth? ✅ Children become bathroom independent at different ages—and that's especially true for many autistic children and children with developmental disabilities. Bathroom independence isn't just about using the toilet. It's a combination of many different skills, including: • Recognizing the need to go • Walking to the bathroom • Pulling clothing up and down • Sitting or standing appropriately • Wiping • Flushing • Washing hands • Tolerating the sensory experience of the bathroom For some children, these skills come together quickly. For others, they develop one step at a time. And that's okay. 💙 Instead of asking, "Why isn't my child potty trained yet?" Try asking: 👉 "What's the next bathroom skill my child is ready to learn?" That small shift can completely change how you approach teaching independence. 👇 I'd love to hear from you. What's been the biggest challenge in your child's potty training journey?