A bad moment doesn’t equal a bad marriage. Every relationship faces storms, but the outcome depends entirely on your perspective when the wind starts to blow. Most importantly: Do not let guilt move in. I remember when Brandon and I remarried. We had plenty of bad moments. We were trying to resolve the rubble of the 'old' marriage while building the 'new' one. It was exhausting. I remember thinking, 'Is this second marriage just as bad as the first?' A dear friend stepped in and reminded me of this truth that has resonated with me to this day: Bad moments happen, but they do not have to define your marriage. If you had a bad moment today, don't let it become the blueprint for your tomorrow. Shake off the guilt, learn the lesson, and keep building. Has a 'bad moment' ever made you question your 'good marriage'? Let’s talk about it in the comments.