Happy Friday, Cold Coffee Club! The temperatures are dropping here and the cozy blankets are coming out, so today's This or That is all about COMFORT FOOD! You know the drill. Pick your winners! 👇 🍲 Chicken Noodle Soup OR Broccoli Cheddar Soup? 🧀 Mac & Cheese OR Grilled Cheese? 🥔 Mashed Potatoes OR Baked Potatoes? 🍝 Spaghetti & Meatballs OR Lasagna? 🥐 Homemade Biscuits OR Cornbread? 🥞 Pancakes OR French Toast? 🍪 Warm Chocolate Chip Cookies OR Fresh-from-the-Oven Brownies? ☕ Hot Chocolate OR Hot Apple Cider? BONUS QUESTION: What's your ultimate comfort food? The one meal that just makes everything feel a little better? Happy FriYAY!

How about a little This or That heading into the weekend? Halloweek Candy Edition Pick your winners! 👇 - Reese's OR Kit Kat? - Skittles OR Starburst? - Snickers OR Milky Way? - Sour Patch Kids OR Swedish Fish? - Twix OR 3 Musketeers? - M&M's OR Peanut M&M's? - Candy Corn OR Literally Anything Else? 😂 BONUS QUESTION: What's the ONE candy you're stealing from the kids' Halloween stash? 👀 Drop your picks in the comments! 👇

Happy Friday, all! Let's have some fun and get to know each other a bit better. This or That: Cozy Fall Afternoon Edition - Apple cider donut OR cinnamon roll - Bookstore OR antique shop - Soup OR chili - Scary movie OR cozy movie - Fuzzy socks OR fuzzy blanket - Rainy OR crisp sunny - Stay home OR spontaneous little adventure Drop your picks below! 👇

Happy Friday, all! Let's have a little fun... In each pair, you can keep ONE forever. The other disappears from your life. ☕️ Coffee OR chocolate 📚 Books OR TV shows 🍕 Pizza OR tacos 🎵 Music OR podcasts 🛍️ Amazon OR Target 🥔 French fries OR mashed potatoes 📱 Texting OR social media 🧀 Cheese OR bread 💰 An extra $1,000 every month OR an extra 10 hours every week

You know That Thing you KNOW you should be doing in your business? (Emailing your list. Posting in your community. Launching that offer. Raising your prices. Finishing the thing you've been working on for the past three quarters… 😅) And yet… you're not doing it. Before you decide you just need to try harder, it's worth figuring out WHY you're resisting it! Because in my experience, we resist things for one of three reasons: 𝟭. 𝗖𝗔𝗣𝗔𝗖𝗜𝗧𝗬 You genuinely don't have the time, energy, attention, money, or other resources for it right now. That's legit. Sometimes the plan simply needs to change to fit your actual season of life. 𝟮. 𝗠𝗜𝗦𝗔𝗟𝗜𝗚𝗡𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧 You could do it… but something doesn't fit. Maybe you're following a business rule you don't agree with. Maybe it doesn't match your strengths or zone of genius. Maybe the goal itself isn't even something you want anymore! Resistance is information. 𝟯. 𝗔𝗩𝗢𝗜𝗗𝗔𝗡𝗖𝗘 So, this one's different. You desperately want the result. You actually have reasonable capacity for it. It fits where you're trying to go. And yet… you avoid it. (And often we even SAY we have Capacity or Misalignment issues, when reeeaaally it's Avoidance… 👀) 👉 This is where I start looking for Mind Monsters. 𝗠𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗠𝗼𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘀 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗯𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗲𝗳𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 (𝗼𝗿 𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻…) 𝘄𝗲 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗯𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗲𝘀.We all have them, and we often don't know they're running the show behind the scenes, holding us back. So, if there's something you've been resisting lately, don't immediately assume you need more discipline. Ask yourself: Is this Capacity? Misalignment? Or Avoidance? And if it's Avoidance… you might want to meet your Mind Monsters. 👀 I made a free Field Guide showing you the four Mind Monsters, how they show up in your business, and one small move you can make to tame each one: 👉https://mindmonsters.thebluebellgroup.com/ Then come back and tell me which one(s) you recognize!