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@Karla Comberiate it certainly shows a step in the correct direction. Hang in there.
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@Karla Comberiate I wonder if they felt resentful trying to be what culture expected from them. One of my gay (not transgender) cousins did what he had to do to become a Colonel in the Army. Once he got to that level, he did divorce, but never told his mother about his real life. They were very subtle about their choices. They both since have passed away.
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Welcome to The P.A.R.E.N.T. Method!
Hello Parent, I am so excited you are here! We are going on a journey together that will help you create the relationship with your adult child you have always wanted. Parenting in this season is not for the faint of heart and I know from personal and professional experience what it takes to be a successful parent to adult kids. You are already ahead of the curve. You are here, hungry to learn, and wanting to grow! Your children are fortunate to have a parent like you who is teachable and willing to invest in your relationship with them. There is no ceiling on a parent who is committed to being the best version of themselves and you will learn on this journey how to be who your child needs you to be: Accepting, emotionally safe, and worthy of trust. Parenting is about you and how you show up in the relationship, not how your children turn out. This is your journey so take whatever time you need to walk through this framework. I have helped parents for over 40 years and I have implemented what you will see and hear with my own adult children, who are in their 40's. I will take you through this process step by step so you know exactly how to incorporate these skills and insights into your life. I want you to be kind to yourself as you start this process. There are millions of parents who have the same questions so take comfort in knowing you are not alone. The good news is that now you are a part of a community who will learn together how to parent adults with confidence and grace. Thanks again for being a part of the P.A.R.E.N.T. Method community. Let's get started! Warmly, Catherine
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@Lindy Liebermn reading what you wrote “we understand“ is not helpful. I’ve had fibromyalgia, muscle and connective tissue disorder, for 30+ years. Believe me, you can’t understand unless you have a debilitating condition such as your daughter and I. What I think you can say is “we can only imagine” or “we can’t imagine” how difficult it is for you to keep working, yet somehow managing to get through each day. Could you be a go-between your daughter and ex-husband? If she’s not getting Brain Health care, anger can be a sign of depression. When I first became ill so many years ago it was heartbreaking and a tremendous loss for me. Everything I would miss in my daughter’s lives and things I wouldn’t be able to do with my grandchildren because my body just wouldn’t let me. It would depress anyone. Also, pain causes anxiety and also tires wears us out physically and mentally. Make sure you ask your daughter if she wants help. Maybe take your granddaughter for a day when your daughter is off work, so she can just have a day for herself. Good kuck.
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@Catherine Hickem thank you. I think both of those are good questions. I’m wondering though if they will think I think they can’t handle what is going on in their lives currently? I’ve offered help to my older daughter and she seldom asks me to help. As you know, I helped my younger daughter with childcare for many years and thought I kept my mouth quiet. My older daughter said part of the split between me and my younger daughter was partly my fault. Someone who was intoxicated visited my home without being invited while my grandchildren were here. I got that person away from my home as fast as possible. I don’t know what my grandchildren told my daughter other than someone came at it scared them. They also told her I don’t do what they want to do. We always do whatever they want unless their mother says otherwise. Now my oldest daughter says she can’t trust me. The following is a text from her. We’re getting the kids from school today and we need to postpone Grammy time until I have the mental space to talk to you about whatever happened with your friend who came over when the kids were at your house in late March. I don’t want to hear any excuses or for you to respond right now. I will check in with you when I’m feeling like I can have a rational conversation with you. Whatever happened, it damaged trust with me, but also with the kids. They didn’t feel safe or heard that day and they aren’t comfortable being with you on their own until we talk and set firmer ground rules. I responded with “Okay.”
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💛 Let’s give a warm welcome to Nancy Young💛
Everyone, please join me in welcoming @Nancy Young to the community. Nancy brings a genuine presence — thoughtful, open, and committed to growing in a meaningful way. It’s clear how much she cares about her daughters, and that kind of intention adds real value to this space. We’re really glad you’re here, Nancy. This is a place where that kind of care and effort matters — and you’re in the right room
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Welcome Nancy.
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🎉🔥 BIG WAVE OF NEW FACES — LET’S WELCOME THEM IN! 🎉🔥
We’ve had a powerful group of parents step into this work recently, and I want to take a moment to properly welcome you all in 👇 @Karla Comberiate , @Chris Roach , @Joanne Zecher , @Esther Levandoski , @Gayle Carlson , @Jerri Higgins , @Carolyn Topness , @Holly Gordon , @James Corbett , @Amy Eudaley You didn’t end up here by accident. Every single one of you made a decision that most parents avoid — to stop guessing, stop carrying this alone, and actually do something about the relationship with your child. That takes courage. Period. This community is different. You’ll be supported, challenged, and guided — but only if you lean in 😊 So here’s where I want to start: 👉 Drop a comment below and share your name + where you’re from 👉 And if you’re open to it, what made you say “enough is enough”? And for everyone already in the community —Let’s show up and welcome them all in! 👇
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Hi, I wrote everything on the first post.
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