Honoring PJ, Living Strong, and the Club Adapt Family
Last year, in 2024, something remarkable happened. Club Adapt reached out to me after seeing the work I’ve been doing here in Mount Laurel through Living Strong Projects and Action Karate. We met in the beginning of 2025, and by March I was teaching my very first Character and Leadership session for their members. [watch short video about Club Adapt] Every month since, when I step onto the mat and look into the eyes of those adults — each accompanied by their companion, each bringing their own story, their own challenges, and their own strength — I feel an overwhelming sense of honor. I don’t see limitations. I see people showing up, ready to grow, ready to connect, ready to be seen and heard. And to be part of that process, even for an hour, is one of the most empowering experiences of my life. This isn’t just another program for me. Every time I lead a session with Club Adapt, I feel the presence of my son PJ. PJ passed away at the age of 12 from complications of MS. His life — short, but filled with courage — continues to shape everything I do. When I’m working with individuals with additional needs, I’m honoring him. I’m giving what I wish I could still give to him: encouragement, laughter, lessons of strength, reminders that he mattered. And he did. He still does. So when I stand before the members of Club Adapt, I know that many of them may not express themselves in words. But leadership and integrity aren’t just spoken — they’re lived, they’re felt. I see it in their eyes, in the way they listen, in the small gestures, in the courage it takes just to show up and engage. And I see it in their companions — the aides who stand faithfully beside them. In my sessions, I call them Coaches. I require every aide to stay with their member throughout the lesson, not to stand off to the side, but to learn with them. Why? Because I want them to leave empowered, too. I want them to understand how to guide, assist, and support their member beyond our class.