Would you go for the trending colors of the season just because they’re “in”? For example, burgundy is everywhere this winter. Do you pick it up purely for the trend, or do you stick to colors that actually fit your style and wardrobe? I’m curious — when it comes to personal style, how much weight do you give to seasonal trends versus timeless choices?

Lately, I’ve been under a lot of pressure from different areas of life. There are financial responsibilities that require strict saving, careful planning, and zero room for mistakes. On top of that, February and March are packed with commitments and holidays that need both time and money. While trying to take care of everyone’s needs and keep things stable, I’ve noticed a pattern: I usually put myself last. I postpone buying things I genuinely want—like new clothes or workout equipment—and tell myself “later” is more responsible. Most of the time, I’m okay with that decision. That said, I do make sure to protect my mental space. I spend time with people who matter to me, and I always keep at least one full off-day—even on busy weeks. No work, no pressure, no overthinking. Just movies, rest, and enjoyment. Still, I feel like something is missing. I’m not someone whose love language is gifts, but when you’ve been wanting something for a long time—especially under financial stress—getting it can feel deeply meaningful. Almost like proof that you’re allowed to take care of yourself the same way you take care of others. So I’m curious to hear your perspectives, gents: - How do you handle situations like this? - How do you balance responsibility with self-care—especially when money is tight—without guilt or over-restriction? Looking forward to your thoughts.

Wearing my new navy coat (I bought during Christmas Holidays) Cream cardigan Blue and white striped shirt Navy blue pants Brown boots and belt Silver watch with gold dial

Does a Navy blue cardigan vest work with Indigo jeans? Sometimes, I think it’s too much dark blue on darker blue?

Woke up to 12 degrees outside this morning. So the only real way for me to combat the cold "Mentally" is to have warm tones, a warm scent as a way to keep everything in balance. The cold and I are NOT friends!! 😎 OOTD: Oatmeal cashmere 1/4 zip Blue/Green/Brown/White Tattersal Dress shirt Olive Green Corduroy Trousers Olive Green/Brown Shadow Stripe ribbed OTC Dress Socks (From my Ft. Belvedere purchase yesterday) Brown Rough Out Suede Derby's WOTD: Grand Seiko GMT - With Brown Strap and Green Dial SOTD: Armani Privé - Cur Noir. A very warming fragrance to match the mental mood I was going for! Stay Warm Everyone and with the Big Storm coming across the country Stay SAFE!!