Drive us all. My friends are author's, public servants, own homes, have kids, etc... I own a car, I have a few hundred in savings, no kids, no partner,but I am healing finally from my trauma. And despite being totally impostor syndrome to the point of not working most of my life, I think incessantly. I have numbers of degrees and certificates, I used to teach art to adults, I used to make art. ..but I burnt ot at 50 ish, and am only just recover now that im about to turn 60.