Thought provoking Question: what are your relationship green flags, and red flags? Green flags being seen and heard. Red flags not listening/ hearing out your partner if they’re voicing an issue Hooks: “Be honest… are you in love or just being tolerated?” “Your relationship might look good… but does it feel safe?” “Green flag or bare minimum? Let’s talk about it. 🚩✨” Emotion to evoke: Self-reflection On screen text: “Green flag or bare minimum? Let’s talk about it. 🚩✨” Visual hook: Me looking straight at the camera getting right to the point (probably will do something cool with the text to grab people’s attention) Voiceover: “you guys are out here calling the bare minimum a green flag… and that’s why the bar is in hell for you.” Visual Concept: Quick cuts of text conversation Clip 1: me checking my phone Text: “He listens when I’m upset🥹” Clip 2: me shrugging Text: “she communicates” Clip 3: me raising an eyebrow Text: “they apologize” Video clip: cutting to me putting my cellphone down Voiceover: “that’s not a green flag. That’s emotional adulthood. A green flag? They don’t just hear you. They adjust. They don’t just say sorry. They fix it. You don’t have to beg to be understood.“ Video clip: Direct eye contact back to the camera. Voiceover: “if you have to keep explaining the same hurt to your partner… that’s not love. That’s a pattern.”

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Emotion to evoke: relief/ validation Hook: I almost didn’t show up because anxiety. Slide 2: Stared at my phone for 20 minutes. Overthought every possible outcome. Slide 3: My brain said: “What if you’re awkward?” “What if no one cares?” “What if you fail?” Slide 4: And then I realized something. Anxiety has predicted 100 disasters for me. Not one of them actually happened. Slide 5: 
And guess what? Nothing catastrophic happened. Just growth. Slide 6: 
Anxiety is loud. But it’s not in charge. And neither is yours.

Reel 1- https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUj_-8cEWBp/?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== Verbal hook with this one. Definitely had me saying “huh, what?” when I read the POV, then stayed once she had asked what he did for a living and he responded with “real estate.” Definitely kept me wondering where this was going the entire time lol Reel 2- https://www.instagram.com/reel/DS5rLLsEiNE/?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== Verbal hook- who the heck thinks to put a fish tank in place of a microwave? Definitely had to see this one play out Reel 3- https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUn87I4EflS/?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== Verbal/visual hook- read the dad took a gummy which peaked my curiosity. Stayed to see what big table they were talking about and it was MASSIVE 😂 Reel 4- https://www.instagram.com/reel/DT5WSD4Du66/?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== Verbal/visual hook- words stated that the pilot warned the passengers it was going to be bright which had me curious to stay for the view, safe to say the visuals did not disappoint. Reel 5- https://www.instagram.com/reel/DR77HP-kYK9/?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== Verbal hook- stated he was replacing his parents keurig water with vodka so I definitely said “WHAT?” When reading that which immediately had me staying to see his parents reactions.

Day 1 — Struggles & Wins 5 Struggles - Finances: Struggling financially has added a lot of stress to my life. I often catch myself comparing my situation to others around my age or even the same age who are doing much better. It makes me feel like I'm falling short, and I start to lose respect for myself because I’m not where I thought I’d be. Deep down, though, I know I’m the only one responsible for not progressing further financially. - Anxiety: I struggle with anxiety, and it’s a daily battle that I face within myself. Unfortunately, it often holds me back from pursuing the things I truly want to do in life. It feels like my mind is always in overdrive, constantly telling me that I’m not good enough. - Laziness/burnout: I often struggle with laziness, and it’s something I can’t seem to shake. It holds me back from reaching my full potential and keeps me from taking action on the things that matter most. The longer I let it control me, the more I feel like I'm wasting my time, which only deepens my frustration. My early mornings at work drain me, and without a solid sleep routine, I often feel too exhausted to do much else. I just wish I had the energy to come home and still feel motivated to tackle the rest of my day. - Grief: My dad passed away nearly five years ago, when I was just 21, and it’s been an incredibly difficult journey ever since. Losing him has been one of my biggest struggles. He was my biggest supporter and always encouraged me to step outside my comfort zone. Life without him has been a constant challenge, and navigating through it has felt like an overwhelming task.  - Insecurities: I’m often my biggest critic, constantly worrying about whether I’m doing something wrong or what others might be thinking of me. My insecurities tend to take over, and I let them control how I feel and act, even when I know I shouldn’t. ______________________________________ 5 Contrasting Wins: - Finances: Struggling with finances has pushed me to become more disciplined and hold myself accountable, knowing that I’m capable of doing better and becoming better. It’s led me to this point, motivating me to break free from a phase of life that hasn’t fulfilled me. And honestly, I see that as a victory in itself.