Assalamualaikum. In today's session, MM answered a lot of questions, in which she kept coming back to learning how to talk to men and deciphering their responses correctly. I have a question: Is the free resource on "Islamic Femininity" enough to understand this? Or should we read some additional books? Let me know, sisters, if you know any good books or YouTube channels (cuz I watch a lot) on this topic that you've come across.

Alsalaam aleyikum sisters. I have been preplexed about this issue. If a woman earns more than her husband and expects him to still be the sole provider for the family of course she cannot put pressure on him. However, if she decides to contribute in areas she knows he cannot fulfil, how does that affect her husband? I know some men do not fare well with this. How do you figure this out before you arry him? Also how do you figure out if he is someone who would want to marry you because you do have an income and he has an internal thought of wanting you to contribute as well. Someone may say that he is willing to provide but that does not remain the case later on.

Honestly… this episode is the one I didn't know I needed. Because there's a difference between a guy going through a season and a guy who has a pattern. And we've been out here confusing the two and either staying too long or walking away too fast. 😭 She breaks it down into 3 clear signs that tell you exactly when to walk away. No more going back and forth in your head. No more "but maybe I'm being too picky." The one that got me? It's not just about what he's doing wrong — it's about how he responds when you bring it up. Is he defensive? Is he actually trying to fix it? Or is he just making excuses? That tells you everything. 👇 If you've been going back and forth about a guy and you just can't figure out what to do, this one's for you. 🤍 Go listen. And come back and tell me; which of the 3 signs hit closest to home? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lSQbLSDiWfI

👀 Sis… what if it’s not a red flag? What if you’re just triggered? Okay, this one is a GOOD one. Have you ever been getting to know someone and suddenly they do or say something that makes you think: “🚩 Nope. That’s a sign. I’m out.” But wait… What if your reaction has more to do with something you experienced in the past than with who this person actually is? In this episode, we’re talking about 3 things emotionally mature people do BEFORE marriage—and honestly, #2 is something I think so many of us need to hear. 🎥 Watch the full episode here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8O3Ego1iZfQ And then come back and tell us… Have you ever mistaken a trigger for a red flag? 👀 No judgment, sis. We’re all learning. 🤍

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1hOkjgrfVsBI2HbBpq0NVOc6tNP_-N5m4/view?usp=drivesdk Click the link to see it⬆️