Tonight we have our Goal Setting Workshop, and I want to share a quote that really stuck with me this week: “When things don’t go well, it’s easy to wonder, ‘Why me?’ It’s easy to point fingers. It’s easy to wallow in frustration or defeat. But it is also easy to ask, ‘What is this teaching me?’ You can’t remove the frustrations from life, but you can always try to come out a little wiser on the other side.” That’s the mindset I'd love us to bring into tonight/tomorrow. (if you're able to make it or watch the replay after/tomorrow 😎) This workshop is not about looking at your life and thinking you are behind, that you are not good enough, or that you lack systems. That mindset kills momentum. Tonight is about asking better questions. 1️⃣ After everything you have experienced so far, what can you do better moving forward? 2️⃣ What is this season teaching you? 3️⃣ Where is the best place for you to start right now, not perfectly, just honestly? Come into the call with a student mentality. Curious. Open. Willing to learn. You may reflect on and answer these questions after the workshop if you wish (I'll make sure to post it again with the replay), and the primary goal is to arrive tonight ready to listen, absorb, and take one meaningful step forward. Looking forward to seeing you.

One of the hardest parts of building anything isn’t strategy. It’s staying in it after the excitement wears off. The first week feels great. The first wins feel motivating. Then reality shows up. Fewer comments than you expected. Slower growth than you imagined. Days where it feels repetitive, boring, or invisible. That’s usually the moment people start questioning themselves. But that moment isn’t a signal to stop. It’s a signal that you’ve entered the part that actually matters. Progress doesn’t come from intensity. It comes from showing up when it’s no longer exciting. That’s true for communities. It’s true for habits. It’s true for personal growth. Quick exercise for today (2 minutes): 1️⃣ One thing you already have that’s helping you move forward 2️⃣ One habit, skill, or resource you’re underestimating 3️⃣ One small win from last week you didn’t give yourself credit for That’s it. Momentum starts when you shift your focus from what’s missing to what’s already working.

I hope the title intrigued you as much as the quote did for me 👇🏽 “Your goal in life should be to reduce the amount of time it takes you to get out of a bad state.” 🤯 How true is that? Think about that for a second. Life is always going to bring frustration, disappointment, and moments where we feel mad, overwhelmed, or stuck. @Georgiana D had a phenomenal post that speaks more to this (check here). That part never goes away. The real skill is not avoiding those moments, but learning how quickly you can pull yourself out of them. One of my biggest mentors used to say: “When you’re five, you can be mad for a day. When you’re ten, you can be mad for an hour. By the time you’re thirty, you get ten minutes, and then you have to move on.” Growth and maturity are not about getting upset. They are about bouncing back faster and learning from it! For me personally, it starts with awareness. I try to recognize the pattern and ask myself why this triggered me in the first place. Have I been here before? Is this really new? What part of this is in my control? Especially in today’s world, where emotions play such a big role, this skill matters more than ever. Curious to hear from you. 💬 When you get into that “mad” state, what helps you get out of it faster? P.S. Feel free to send a picture/video of where you are and your beautiful weather 🥶🥵

Quick reminder that we have our community call tonight at 7 PM sharp. I want to start making this a weekly thing. We are heading into the holidays, so the schedule might shift a bit, but we will be back at full capacity in January. If you want calls during the holidays too, early or late in the week, let me know. Next Wednesday is our Goal Setting Workshop. Invite friends or anyone in your life who could benefit from it. You can share the link with people inside or outside Skool. It is Thursday (almost Friday for some of you), which means you still have plenty of time to finish the week strong. Think back to the goals you set on Monday and the things you want to hit by January 1st. Are you on track? Do you need to adjust? What needs to change? Please take 10 minutes to watch this video, it's powerful, and it'll help you. Please send any feedback below! 👇🏽 I hope it makes your day better, and I hope to see you tonight. If you can't make it, no problem at all. I will send the reply afterward.

Well, 2026 pretty much already started months ago for the high achievers like us 😎 A few updates: 1️⃣ Our Goal Setting Workshop is happening on December 17th at 7 pm EST. (Calendar updated) - Here's the registration link if you want to invite people from outside of Skool, like your life/friends/family/partners (https://forms.gle/CCFmV9i54vgYj5fT6), even though they should be in your community haha 2️⃣ The Leadership Launchpad Course will officially launch on December 29th. (Let me know if any questions here). 3️⃣ Don't forget to update us with your December goals so we can hold each other accountable throughout the month. 4️⃣ The classroom has been updated and will be getting even more this week, so stay tuned. 5️⃣ Tiers have also been updated if you haven’t checked. And to wrap this up, here’s one of my favorite quotes in life: You can have everything in life you want if you will just help enough other people get what they want. - Zig Ziglar I am EXCITED for this week and the end of this year. What about you? What are your top 3 goals this week?