RMRS crew, here are a few standout posts from the RMRS community this week. 👏 Big shoutout to @Brian McGuire for “Dead Horse finally kicked???-Preppy” and a thoughtful discussion of how the meaning and connotations of preppy style have changed across generations. It gave members a nuanced prompt for a lively, respectful style conversation. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/dead-horse-finally-kicked-preppy 👏 Shoutout to @Anthony Buntyn for “The New Gentleman's Forum Podcast is Ready!” and clearly articulating how a gentleman’s society can strengthen style, standards, and connection. It sparked a valuable conversation about finding meaningful community beyond the usual social circles. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/the-new-gentlemans-forum-podcast-is-ready 👏 Shoutout to @Chad Smith for “Day 10 - Wednesday 30 September, Tokyo Disney Sea” and sharing a detailed, personal update from his family trip. His posts bring generosity and real-life perspective to the community. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/day-10-wednesday-30-september-tokyo-disney-sea 👏 Shoutout to @Jeffrey Plotka for “Practicing Self Care!” and candidly sharing his effort to step outside his comfort zone while traveling alone. It was a thoughtful reminder that personal growth can happen in the small choices we make for ourselves. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/practicing-self-care 👏 Shoutout to @Mitch Hoover for “High School Reunion Wear” and walking us through the outfit he chose for a meaningful milestone event. His approach to dressing intentionally without overdressing created a useful, relatable style discussion.

https://www.realmenrealstyle.com/preppy-revival-fall/ Our fearless community leader Antonio Centeno has created a spreadsheet defining preppy vs Ivy League vs traditional. It is a very interesting read and as a whole I would agree with its premise which is don’t be afraid to wear these proven looks this fall and yet be very cognizant of the “preppy costume” which happens when you over do it. Anyone who has read any of my post knows that not only am I a fan of Ivy League or what I simply term American Classic Timeless Menswear, but I have been wearing this style for 5 decades with a distaste for the opposite view which is the fickle foibles of fashion. There are a few things that I would like to support and emphasize in the article: The one that stands out the most is under “traditional” emphasizing the shoe. This is one I’ve spoken about frequently. I’ve met guys for the first time and been able to tell a whole lot about him based upon his footwear and have done so for multiple decades. In all actuality I would argue this is something that should span across all three categories. I mean until the Preppy handbook came out in 1980 that word “preppy” was virtually unknown except in that book and the movie (book) Love Story and perhaps on a few very select campuses. In the Preppy Handbook the “right” shoe is a funny part of this amusing parody. Nevertheless, it did a very accurate job describing the “traditional” shoe which is also very “Ivy League” and obviously “Preppy” considering it just told you these were the”right” shoes🤪. I also appreciate his discussion surrounding Traditional being a specific cut of garment that is extremely immutable to fashion change. (Although I am bewildered by the comment regarding “a higher button stance” perhaps that is referring to the three button that doesn’t have a 3/2 roll??? Not sure.) Irrespective, I think his breakdown is an interesting delineation. Lastly, I really like his description of “old money” as merely an internet construct (the newest goofball internet explanation would have to also be “grandpa style” 🤣). While if I were putting this together I might have done it a bit differently, yet it is nevertheless very impressive and as usual extremely well presented. You should take a look at the article

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RMRS crew, here are a few standout posts from the RMRS community this week. 👏 Big shoutout to @Brian McGuire for “The Book of Kells, and my confessions” and the thoughtful way he connected his outfit choice to supporting a friend facing a difficult family moment. It showed how personal style can be an intentional expression of care and solidarity. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/the-book-of-kells-and-my-confessions 👏 Shoutout to @Chad Smith for “Day 4 - Japan” and sharing a detailed snapshot of the trip, from origami lessons to exploring Nihonbashi and Shibuya. His travel updates give the community a fun, personal window into style and experiences abroad. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/day-4-japan 👏 Shoutout to @Sam Merritt for “OOTD Back to work Monday” and reflecting on how dressing toward the professional end of business casual helps set the tone for the week. It sparked a valuable conversation around intentional dressing and confidence at work. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/ootd-back-to-work-monday 👏 Shoutout to @Alan Dormire for “9/19/2026 Shopping Trip” and sharing a memorable real-world compliment received while out shopping. It was a great reminder that putting thought into how you present yourself can positively affect the people around you. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/9192026-shopping-trip 👏 Shoutout to @Anthony Buntyn for “Are You A Rebel?” and posing a timely question about wearing ties in an increasingly casual workplace culture. The post encouraged members to reflect on personal standards and the confidence to dress with intention.

RMRS crew, here are a few standout posts from the RMRS community this week. 👏 Big shoutout to @Brian McGuire for “Suit Confessions” and sharing a practical approach to getting dressed quickly by starting with the simplicity of a suit. It sparked a strong, helpful conversation around personal style and reducing decision fatigue. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/suit-confessions 👏 Shoutout to @Chad Smith for “New Ivassi Shoes” and sharing the unexpected win of his recent collaborations and new footwear. His post brought genuine enthusiasm and a relatable look at building confidence through style. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/new-ivassi-shoes 👏 Shoutout to @Raymond Reeves for “Learning from a funeral” and reflecting thoughtfully on the blue blazer that marked an early step in his sartorial journey. It gave the community a meaningful reminder that clothing can carry both purpose and personal history. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/learning-from-a-funeral 👏 Shoutout to @Anthony Buntyn for “Update On My Eye” and openly sharing his recovery update with the group. The post brought the community together with encouragement and support when it mattered. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/update-on-my-eye 👏 Shoutout to @William Feldtmose for “OOTD September 16th” and continuing to contribute a strong daily-style post to the conversation. Consistent outfit sharing gives members fresh ideas and keeps the community engaged. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/ootd-september-16th Keep sharing the outfits, lessons, milestones, and real-life context behind your style choices.