Today is @Toby Weibye 31st, 21st birthday. We hope you dance today!!!! 🕺

I’ve got two things that come to mind: 1) Asking, very directly, for people to help me. 2) Stepping fully into what I do/offer and who I want to be, with everyone that I know.

You have to create a new identity to achieve what you want. We have to train our minds against protection to keep us the "same" safe person. That requires self-awareness. Internal and External. Internal is how we see ourselves. How do we reflect that we show up every day? External, which many of us lack, is "How we show up to other people. How we impact them." What story are you still telling yourself that no longer serves you? What does your Future You know that you're still learning? What would radical ownership look like today? DO THE WORK - DON'T GO THROUGH THE MOTIONS.

I just did something a little different with this week journal prompts. Instead of trying to “think my way” to clarity, I used a customized version of ChatGPT I built, one that I designed to act like Benjamin Hardy as my personal coach. I gave it the prompts and then had a full back-and-forth, like a real coaching conversation. I voiced my struggles, explored doubts, and gained insights. Honestly? It felt like Benjamin Hardy (or even better @Michael Clegg) was sitting across from me, asking sharp questions, challenging me, and helping me actually get clear. The experience was deep, energizing, and incredibly helpful. Here’s what you can do with it: - Upload your Impossible Goal - Ask the ChatGPT each morning: “What should I focus on today?” - At night, reflect: “How did I do? What would Hardy say?” It challenges you. It encourages you. Keeps you on track. I built this for me… but this is the first time I’m sharing it - - only with this group. I’d love for you to try it, give feedback, and tell me how you use it, or how you’d want to use it. Here is the link: https://chatgpt.com/g/g-682a25b81bd08191a1774a72e6f79f1a-daily-benjamin-hardy-coach

But just in case 😉 I have been making content on YouTube and social media for over five years with the intent and desire to be a surrogate dad to fatherless young men. This short video has over 50,000 views, and it's earned me an estimated $3.14. (More importantly it has generated 306 subscribers). I welcome your input on how I can help support young men growing up without a dad, and men who hare still carrying the wounds of a negative or absent relationship with their dads (including those of you in this group).