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Motivation doesn't work. So what DO you do?
We all have things we don't feel like doing. We push them off. We negotiate. We wait to "feel ready" or "be in the mood." Here's the problem: emotions come and go. When you're frustrated, stressed, or stuck - it feels permanent. But emotions follow what you've been focusing on. Back in 1996, I hit a low point. I read Tony Robbins' Awaken the Giant Within and it changed who I am. One of the biggest shifts was understanding how to change your STATE - not wait for motivation. Two ways to shift your state: 1. Change what you focus on The questions you ask yourself create your energy. Lower-level questions: • "Do I HAVE to do this?" • "Do I even WANT to?" • "I'm upset and I don't care." Stronger questions: • "What am I thankful for?" • "Who do I love? Who loves me?" • "How can I improve? Get better? Help someone?" Change the question = change the state. 2. Move your body Motion creates emotion. Sitting all day = stuck energy. Get up. Walk. Stretch. Train. State-changers people use: • Music that flips the switch • Getting to class (people + energy) • Coffee ritual • Pre-workout • Breathwork • Cold shower • Getting dressed for training • Calling someone who lifts you up My lifting playlist + getting my shoes on = automatic state shift. By the time I hit the garage, my body already knows what to do. No negotiation. Drop yours below: What tools do YOU use to shift your state? List as many as you want.
Motivation doesn't work. So what DO you do?
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MUSIC. Music is my main state-changer.
🏆 WIN WEDNESDAY — Foundation Challenge Stack Check
We're 3 weeks into the Foundation Challenge. Some of you are crushing it. Some of you stumbled and restarted. Some of you are barely hanging on. All of that counts. Drop your update: • What's your daily Foundation Challenge habit? • How many days have you stacked so far? • What's one thing that's helping you stay consistent? Examples: ✅ Breathwork — 20 days straight — doing it first thing so I can't negotiate ✅ No added sugar — 18 days (missed 3) — meal prep on Sunday is carrying me ✅ 20 min workout — 21 days — accountability partner texts me every morning One sentence is enough. 11 days left until Feb 28th. The real win? You're still here. 💪 Drop it below.
🏆 WIN WEDNESDAY — Foundation Challenge Stack Check
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Staying off my phone after 8pm--I think I managed about 5 days in a row.
📍 What season are you in right now?"
We all plan our weeks thinking those daily tasks build toward something bigger. But here's what most people miss: your weekly routine should CHANGE based on where you are in your cycle. I've got students 4 weeks out from their 4th-6th degree black belt pre-evaluation. They test once a year - that's it. So right now? Their training, eating, and recovery look completely different than they did 3 months ago. Same goal. Different season. Different execution. You're in one of four places: STARTING - Just beginning a new push toward something. High energy, lots of planning, building momentum. STUCK - You've been grinding but progress feels invisible. The middle sucks. The novelty is gone. APPROACHING - You can see the finish line. The goal is real now. Time to adjust, intensify, or maintain. SUSTAINING - No specific deadline. No competition. Just showing up daily and maintaining the discipline. Building identity through consistency, not chasing a trophy. Here's what I need to know in the comments: 1. Which season are you in - Starting, Stuck, Approaching, or Sustaining? 2. If you have a specific goal/deadline, what is it? 3. Does your current weekly routine match where you actually are, or are you just running the same play on repeat? Drop your answers. Let's see where everyone's at.
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@Jason Reed I suppose my daily workout is my non-negotiable. And I will keep going until my heart/mind gets back in the game. That is the nice thing, or the comforting thing, about training being a part of your identity. Stopping isn't an option. And one of these days I will feel the excitement again.
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@Jason Reed YES! This. I have never thought of it as "protecting the routine." But that's exactly what it is. In the moment I may not want to do anything, but something in me knows I have to "protect the routine" with fierceness because if I don't everything will just fall to pieces. And I have worked too hard to see it all disappear. Thank you for giving me an enlightening way to describe what I do.
🔧 What tools do you use when your heart isn't in it?
@Jolee Josephs said something yesterday that stopped me cold: 'My heart isn't in it right now. I feel broken.' And then she showed up anyway." That's not motivation. That's discipline with tools. Because here's the truth - feeling great or "in the mood" is NOT required to do what you need to do to become who you're going to be. You go through the motions sometimes. That's not weakness. That's the job. So what actually carries you when motivation is completely gone? Here are some tools people use: - Get around people who pull you forward - a coach, a class, a community - Train alone with music that shifts your energy - Podcast or audiobook that gets your head right before you even start - Breathwork to reset before you walk through the door - A non-negotiable routine that doesn't require a decision - you just execute - Reading something that reconnects you to your WHY - Accountability partner who expects you to show up Drop yours in the comments: What's the ONE tool that keeps you moving when everything in you wants to stop?
🔧 What tools do you use when your heart isn't in it?
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For me it is community and music. Having a clan, a team, that supports you is more beneficial than I can say. SO many times over the past month I have been in a position where I have already done the bare minimum, enough to be acceptable--I've already gone to 2 TKD classes that week or I have already done my workout--and I get a text from a friend asking if I'm going to class or if I want to workout together. A couple of weeks ago I was in bed early in the evening feeling sorry for myself and ready to just let the day end when I got a text from a friend asking if I was going to TKD class that evening. She said, "I was thinking of skipping, but if you're going then I am going." I pulled myself out of bed with ALL the curse words because my answer had to be "I am 100% going to be there." Because if my showing up helps someone else show up, then it's not even a choice. Those moments have helped me be there for myself when I didn't want to be.
🔥 FUEL THURSDAY — This or That Edition
No wrong answers. Just honesty. Drop your picks below 👇 ☕ Coffee or Tea? 🍳 Breakfast or Skip It? 🥩 Meat or Plants? 🎧 Music or Podcasts (while training)? 💊 Pre-workout or Nah? 🏠 Home gym or Commercial? 😴 Early to bed or Night owl? Bonus: Defend one of your picks. Let's see who's got the best argument. 💪
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Coffee (sometimes) Breakfast Plants MUSIC No pre-workout (but I miss it) Home Gym Early (very early) to bed
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Jolee Josephs
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I'm a martial artist, yoga enthusiast, and amateur weightlifter. I am happiest when I have goals that I am actively working towards.

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Joined Jan 8, 2026
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