There are many aspects of this journey of becoming ladies and gentlemen, one of the most important aspects is respecting and loving the person that we are in a relationship with. We tend to focus on the others, but we tend to forget the person who we are with. And the reality is that when we change and we become more refine this person might feel left out or that you might not desire them anymore. This is why it is important that you let them know that you are still just as much in love with them now as before, the only difference in that you want to be your best for them Now here is the thing, as we grow on this journey we should also evaluate how we been as are treating the person that we are in a relationship with. Because here is the reality, most people do not love the person they are in a relationship because they do not serve them yes, they do not serve them. Most people are with a person because they use them, they use them for companionship, for convivence, for money, and for many other reasons other than to serve them. Most people do not even know the true definition of love., A deep connection involving selflessness care, profound affection, commitment to another's wellbeing expressed through acceptance, support, and respect. Now I am not here to preach or force religion on anyone, but this is important to life. The bible says we are to love our enemies. So, think about this, we are to treat our enemies better than we treating the person that we are in a relationship with. Hits home, doesn't it? So, make this a part of your journey, recognize, respect, and show affection to the person you are in a relationship with. Don't leave them behind on this journey, encourage them to join you on this journey, you will be surprised how much easier and enjoyable this journey will be when you are not traveling this alone.