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Coffee Hours Recap — Repeat Weeks, Triggers & Habit Stacking
Great session today. Here's a quick summary of what we covered in case you missed it or want a refresher. 1. Repeating a Week Is Not Failing If you've had to repeat a week in the program — good. That's not a setback. That's you doing exactly what needs to be done. James Clear's concept of the Plateau of Latent Potential explains it perfectly. Think of an ice cube sitting in a cold room. You heat the room from 28 degrees to 29, 30, 31 — and nothing happens. The ice cube just sits there. But then you hit 32 degrees and it melts all at once. That's you right now. Every habit you're building, every week you repeat, every day you show up — you're heating that room. The results will come. You just have to keep going long enough to hit 32 degrees. Even I'm repeating Week 13 for the third time. Not because I'm failing — because I haven't hit 32 degrees yet. And I'm not stopping until I do. 2. Your Habit Problem Is Probably a Trigger Problem If you're struggling to stick with a habit, don't blame your discipline. Blame your trigger — or the lack of one. A trigger is the thing you do right before your habit every single day. It's the cue that tells your brain — okay, it's time. BJ Fogg built a habit of doing 50-70 pushups a day simply by doing two pushups every time he used the restroom. That's it. Small, consistent, and attached to something he already did every day. The formula is simple: After I do [current habit], I will do [new habit]. After my feet hit the floor → I drink 16 ounces of water. After I brush my teeth → I do my Daily 10. After my Daily 10 → I stretch. Stack them together and your whole routine starts to run on autopilot. 3. Start Smaller Than You Think You Need To You already know how to floss all your teeth. The problem isn't knowledge — it's automaticity. So start with one tooth. Seriously. Make it so small your brain can't say no. Then build from there. The goal right now isn't performance. It's repetition. Every rep builds a stronger neural connection. Every connection makes the next rep easier. That's the science behind why this program works — and why staying consistent, even imperfectly, beats going hard and burning out every single time.
Coffee Hours Recap — Repeat Weeks, Triggers & Habit Stacking
Tomorrow's Coffee Hour: 8am
☕️ Coffee Hour Topics Here’s what we’re covering in this week’s Coffee Hour session: ✅ Why Repeating a Week Isn't Failure — It's the Whole Point. Why staying on a week until it sticks is actually the smartest move you can make — and how the people who slow down are the ones who make it to Week 13. Video: James Clear - Plateau of Latent Potential ✅ The Trigger Is Everything -- Why your habit problem probably isn't a discipline problem—it's a trigger problem. How to anchor your habits to things you already do automatically so they stop getting skipped. Video: Forget big change, start with a tiny habit: BJ Fogg at TEDxFremont Article: "Habit Stacking: How to Build New Habits by Taking Advantage of Old Ones" — James Clear Quick: Let me know what's one win you had from this past week, big or small? Let's celebrate those wins!
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☕ Coffee Hour Recap — This Week's Session
We covered a lot of ground today. Here's the quick breakdown if you missed it (or want a refresher): 1. Perfectionism = Procrastination Waiting for the perfect schedule, the perfect gym, the perfect week? That's not preparation — that's hiding. The program doesn't need to be perfect. You don't need to be perfect. You just need to keep going. Even a messy Daily 10 beats a perfect plan that never starts. 2. Confidence Stacking & Small Wins Make your bed. Do your Daily 10. Hit your water. Those things feel small — but they compound. The snowball doesn't look like much at the top of the hill. Give it time and stay consistent. That's the whole game. 3. Why the Scale Isn't the Real Scorecard If you're not dropping weight as fast as you expected, that doesn't mean it's not working. You may be building muscle, improving body composition, sleeping better, and have more energy — none of which show up on a scale. Check your clothes. Check your measurements. Check how you feel. Those are the real numbers. 4. Staying Consistent When Life Gets Hard Work overtime. Sick week. Death in the family. Life will hit you. The goal isn't to be unaffected — it's to keep some momentum going. Even if that's just the Daily 10. Forward is a pace. The only way you lose is if you stop completely. [Link to Videos and Sources found in this Video] Thanks for showing up today, everyone. See you next week. 💪
☕ Coffee Hour Recap — This Week's Session
☕️ Coffee Hour Replay Summary — All-or-Something, Self-Talk, & Protecting Your Time
Today’s Coffee Hour covered 3 core coaching concepts to help you stay consistent (especially when life gets messy): ✅ 1) The “All-or-Something Day”We’re ditching the all-or-nothing mindset. One imperfect day doesn’t mean you failed.If life hits hard, the win is doing something to keep momentum: - Daily 10 (walk, stretch, bike, quick circuit) - One protein “anchor” meal - One solid water win (one 16–24oz drink if 64oz feels like too much) The goal: stay in the game and avoid turning one off day into a streak. 🧠 2) Identity + Self-TalkWhat you say to yourself becomes your reality. Negative self-talk becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.This week, practice the flip: - “I can always do 10 minutes.” - “I don’t need to feel ready—I just need to start.” - “I can do the first minute… the next nine will follow.” Start catching the negative script and replacing it with a better one. And start using more positive self-talk in your everyday life. - I can do this. - I will be successful. - I am a winner. - I am healthy. - I am good at this. ⏱️ 3) Time Management: Protect One BlockConsistency gets easier when you claim one protected time block for movement—then treat it like an appointment. Tips: - Pick a repeatable time (before work, lunch, after work, after dinner, before bed) - Add a boundary: “I work out before I sit down” / “No phone until I’m done” - Have a fallback plan if your normal time gets disrupted 👇 Quick comment prompt:What are you focusing on this week? 1. All-or-something day 2. Self-talk / identity script 3. Protected time block (time + boundary + fallback)
☕️ Coffee Hour Replay Summary — All-or-Something, Self-Talk, & Protecting Your Time
☕️ Coffee Hour Replay Summary — Decision Fatigue, Habit Setup, & The Scale
Today we hit 3 coaching themes to help you stay consistent without overthinking: ✅ 1) Decision Fatigue (keep it simple)When you feel overwhelmed by “what should I do?” the solution is less choices, not more willpower. - Stick to simple, familiar movements (walk, squats, push-ups, basic strength work) - Use a beginner YouTube workout if you don’t want to think - Create defaults (repeatable options) for workouts + meals so you’re not reinventing the wheel every day 🍗 Protein defaults idea:Have a repeatable breakfast + lunch + snack that you know gets you most of the way to your protein goal. You can rotate every few weeks if you get bored. ✅ 2) Habit Creation: Make it OBVIOUS + Make it EASYIf you want a habit to stick, set your environment up for it. - Make it obvious: put workout clothes/shoes/water/protein options where you can’t miss them - Make it easy: prep the night before, reduce steps, have a home “exercise corner” so it’s ready to go(Bonus: for bad habits, do the opposite—make it hidden and harder to do.) ✅ 3) Don’t obsess over the scale (focus on the right signals)Day-to-day scale changes are often water, stress, sleep, digestion, and timing—not fat gain.Instead of letting the scale mess with your head, track the signals: - Are you hitting your Daily 10 consistently? - Are you hitting hydration + protein more often? - Do you feel better after you exercise? - Energy improving? Strength improving? Clothes fitting better? If you weigh in, keep it consistent:📌 same time of day (best = morning, before food/drink), and look at trends—not one day. 👇 Quick comment prompt:What’s ONE thing you’re implementing this week? 1. Workout/meal defaults 2. Make it obvious + make it easy setup 3. Stop scale obsession + track better signals
☕️ Coffee Hour Replay Summary — Decision Fatigue, Habit Setup, & The Scale
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