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Attention, Focus,Respect and how are thes linked
Hy beutiful Souls,
The today topic is Respect, and re deffining it, firs for myself.
Until now it was mostly just a word, that i just used in some circumstances without really fealing in it.
Yesterday, i was in the Wood, and i had a conversation with Jesus. It was kind of funny, talking "alone" in the Wood. I was kind of upset, and i had an attitude of arogant and ironic, but it felt kind of right to be like that.
Than came to me the word of Respect, that brought me to this topic.
What is actually Respect!
Now days, everithing i consider, i am begining from an to my self.
First of all, it is or has to be a complex fealing, frequency.
When we think about respect and want to explain to a little childe, wich words, or concepts would i use to deffine?
And it has to have to do with attention, recognition, acceptance, and action, also like every time a littel bit of love. The secret ingredient to all.☺️🥣
Recognizing, accepting, and responding to my neads, my value, abilitys and acting on them, is actually a real description of respect.
Throu our attention, focuse we are chosing our perspectives, and our perspective is what then creates our reality.
Our greates power lise in Attention and Focus as a soul incarnated here. Actually our only real tool, and power.
Thats why everithing and everyone is craving and damanding our attention, becous throu our attention we bring this life to being. Whitout, it dosen't exist.
That's why the oposite of love is not hate (other kind of love on the othere side of the spectrum) , is indiference.
Throu indiference you are withdrowing your attention, and where is no attention has no power from you anymor, and at some point it desapers.
So with this in minde Respect is a high form of attention, higher form of power you are creating.
It can happen in bouth sides, if you are focused with the quality of love you are creating a power based on the same quality, if your focuse is based on fear it's than you are also pouring your power in it with that same quality.
It happened to me, i had a coworker, i was new on this work space and she learned me at the beginning, she was a good coworker, in the same position as i was, i respected here, and begun to empower here throu my appretiation, she was also kind of perfectionist, and had a different aproch on the work we have done. After a time she begun to bully othere new collegs who came, she begun to give instructions, and to critiseze them, then she begun also to finde issiuse in my work, and back then i wasn't that confident' and couldn't stay up for myself.
At some point she became a not relly plesent coworker for everybody, she did here job good, but she nerved her coworkers.
I also had to look at my work and to recognize, to appriciate my work, becous i was also relly good in my job, just i had an other aproch to it. And pepole loved me for what and how i did my job.
By defining at some point my worth, and gave respect to myself, happend that she had to go, to discution to our Boss for here "bulling" , it wasn''t iniciated by me, but somehow i also landed on the meating. And i only had to be there, i did't had to do anything, just withness.
What happend, i have to mention, my secret abillity is to give things, ideas, and pepole power throu my focus, which we all do.
I begun to exageratetly appreciate here work, and she gaind more and more power which she actually did't needed. After a whily she begun to felt supperior throu that, and felt the urge to lead us, but on here oun thermes, becous she was a good worker, but a kind of bed leader, she didn't had the abilities neede for that.
Throu begining to bully otherese now she begun to gain more power now based on fear. So this is how we can create a monster without wanting to, and now i understand, if your respect don't begins within, and give it to otherse, without concernment, we are actually creating monsters around us. And than complain about them, making it worst.
Then what is respect?
It is respectful, ignoring one inabilitys letting them go with it, not recognizing also the inabilitis in otheres, is also a form of desrespect.
Toward children for exempel, not recognizing that they are not abel to do certain things, and complaining, critisizing them is acrually a form of desrespect from us.
What do you think?
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Attention, Focus,Respect and how are thes linked
