One of the biggest and most widely spread lies people have been programmed with is… Everybody who tried the bullshit story about hug the dragon long enough and it becomes a kitty cat… knows its bullshit. The Truth is that the soul needs open Doors and the ego need closed Doors. A ego that you answer with softness will not feel safe with you. Because it isnt. Ego’s needs corrections as nurturing and souls need tenderness. This is conscious programming to keep suppressing your instinct and to keep you in a submissive role towards destructive energy. People talk about love or boundaries… but boundaries are a form of selfless love. Everyone prefers to stay soft and at ease rather than set boundaries. But for both your own central nervous system and that of the other, it is crucial that when someone runs a red light, a correction happens. So we learn that destructive behavior is also disconnection. Just like being soft with someone who, in that moment, needs a solid wall to come back to their senses.