1. WATCH — Dan Ariely, "Are we in control of our own decisions?" (TED, 2008) ted.com/talks/dan_ariely_are_we_in_control_of_our_own_decisions He shows organ donor rates across Europe. In countries where you tick a box to join the register, almost nobody joins. In countries where you tick a box to leave it, almost everybody stays. Same people. Same values. All that changed was which way the form was already pointing. Your bank account has a default too, and it points at spending. Money lands, it sits there, and your brain files it as available. Do this: pick one thing and set the standing order to leave on payday, not on the 1st. You are not trying harder. You are just turning the form around. 2. READ — Scarcity, by Sendhil Mullainathan and Eldar Shafir (2013) They tested sugarcane farmers in India twice. Once before harvest when money was tight, once after harvest when it was not. The same farmers scored worse on thinking tasks before harvest than after. Money worry does not just make you feel bad. It takes up room you need for thinking. So when you sit down to sort your money at the exact moment you are most stressed about it, you are doing the hardest job with the least brain. Do this: move your money admin to the two or three days after you get paid, and put it in the diary now. Same job, same you, better conditions. 3. DO (10 minutes) — the free Cash Flow Model thewayofwealth.shop/cash-flow-model Ten questions, about three minutes, and you get a report back. It maps where your money actually goes each month and shows you what that pace gets you by the time you stop working. Most people carry a rough guess in their head and the guess is always kinder than the number. Better to know now while you can still change it. Comment the number of the one you're actually doing this weekend. 1, 2 or 3 . I'll check back Monday and ask you how it went.