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Defeating fears (part 2) (3-minute read)
The 5th day of 2025 has just started and I decided to create part 2 for defeating fears, so that you can have splendid 2025. Have you ever heard that a team is as strong as its weakest unit? Imagine that your inner team is all your emotions and belief systems. Your weakest unit would be your fear(s). They are your weakest unit. Paradoxally, you have to blur their influence in order to strenghten your weakest unit. GOOD NEWS - your weak spots (your fears) also have weak spots. Amazing, isn't it? A survey conducted in Michigan University reveals the following: 1. 60% of our fears are completely unreasonable; they never happen. 2. 20% of our fears are focused on our past, which is totally out of our control. 3. 10% of them are based on things that are so insignificant that they don't matter to our existence. 4. From the other 10% only 4 to 5% can be deemed to be reasonable. These statistics show that every second and dose of energy attached to fears are fully wasted and unproductive for 95% of the time. Weeks ago I heard something from Alex Hormozi - "The best way to solve a problem is to look at it as it is not a problem anymore." To support these words I am sharing with you an Indian tale: Desperate, the student went to his teacher and asked him: - How can I free myself, teacher? The teacher replied: - And who binds you, my friend? What if you just look from the perspective of NO-perspective? It - the fear - doesn't exist anymore. In my opinion, the only thing you should be afraid of is negative thoughts. If you contemplate on life and your current situation in negative way, you LACK WISDOM because all the benefits come to the wise ones who take actions. Fears might be also signs for lack of knowledge and wisdom. As a consequence, you possibly have limiting belief systems and negative aura. Enrich your mind. Notice how CHILDREN do it. When you are afraid, visualise that you are a small child who does not know that he should be afraid. Like, for example, that you should beware of wasps because they sting. Fear is formed only when stung. You haven't been stung yet, but you're already scared due to a story you happened to be told in the distant past. By the way do you want a child to be braver than you? As Albert Camus marks quite deeply: "He, who lacks courage, always finds a philosophy to justify himself."
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Unlimited work (0,5-minute read)
As 2025 is already enrolling for another 365 days, an important reminder/lesson for new better success would be that the only limit to your greatness tomorrow are your doubts today. So, start/continue with believing in yourself because this is required for unlimited work. Aaaand... If you do have unlimited work it means that your perspicacity is unlimited, too. You perceive future development in many areas. GO ON! Only your perspicacity for unlimited work is limited. Live with greatness, so you can be ageless. - Van Lov
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Christmas is amazing and Christmas can be a trap (1-minute read)
I love Christmas. These days of the year show how people should behave the other 362 days. All family members gather round, you feel the warmth and overindulge yourself. Here is the trap - if you are a person who adores his discomfort and development, you will quite soon feel that all this cosiness dulls your sharp senses of being like a lion when it comes to hunting greatness. I felt it. However, instead of fighting it, I decided to focus on developing. You see, if you had 2 dogs - one in the dark and ine in the light, which one would survive? . . . . . . . . . The one you feed. If I focus on vanquishing discomfort, I will become one with it. I decides to accept it and I focused on the dog in the light - my growth and discomfort zone. Accept your pain and disadvantages. Otherwise they will wrap around you and crush you. Focus on the light. Merry Christmas and Happy New year! - Van Lov
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Why you can't start (1-minute read)
It is all about the beginning. The main mistake is that you MISLEAD yourself thinking about all the actions you will have to make in order to reach your final goal. You don't need 100% to achieve 100%. You need to START and overcome the beginning in order to reach for the middle (around 30%). The beginning requires just ONE step. In front of you you can place a fog, so not to be scary when the process seems arduous. Believe in yourself because luck comes to the courageous. These who believe, escape the Matrix. Without belief you will stay in your cacoon and never finish the metamorphosis. The bigger the action, the bigger the belief required and the bigger the growth. You need 100% positive energy. No mediocre and limited belief systems from people working as clerks blaming society and Universe for their subaverage life. Choose impeccability. It all starts with belief. And remember that even 2 minutes effort are INFINITELY many times better than 0 minutes. Live with greatness, so you can be ageless. - Van Lov
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Tea is drunk when it is warm and iron is forged while it is hot (part 2) (2-minute read)
Speaking of heat and cold, I decide to move on to the second part of the chapter. The iron is forged while it's hot. "Yes, but I don't want to forge it now.", "I feel like there's something else I need/want to do." If in 5 minutes you put down my future book and for some unconscious or obvious reason go near your sink full of dishes, will you miss the opportunity to wash them, or will you wait for them to dry and get moldy? You're within arm's reach of the dishes and you know that at some unknown moment you'll have to wash them ANYWAY, so why not when you're closest to them? There will NEVER be a better time and you know it deep down in your heart. Alas, you can't see deep down because your laziness or waiting for the *PERFECT* moment blurs the clarity and you reach the surface of your heart, of your spirit. Why waste seconds and soon minutes at some other point in your daily life to go to the sink when you are at the other end of your room or apartment and wash the dishes with more dislike and with more effort because they are dry? Answer yourself with an adequate answer because my question is adequate. If you choose PROXIMITY TO THE OPPORTUNITY, to being able to do this task, you will be more satisfied than if you put it off and do it with more effort and with more reluctance (paradoxical, right?) because you will have exercised instant discipline, and the procrastination you are aware of is broken. And what else? This satisfaction is addictive and you will want to feel it AGAIN. The iron is forged while it's hot. And imagine hammering the hot iron while your tea cools? Live with greatness, so you can be ageless. - Van Lov
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This group is based on my future book "Greatness is ageless". Once a week I upload a chapter from my book so that you gain wisdom no matter your age.
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