Avoidance often stems from fear, discomfort, or a belief that the task or skill isn’t worth the effort. But when we avoid something, we’re not just dodging a momentary challenge—we’re also sidestepping the growth, success, and fulfillment that could come from confronting it.
The truth is, the very things we resist are often the things we most need to embrace. These challenges hold the keys to the doors we’re trying to unlock in our lives. Avoiding them creates a void—a space where progress, potential, and opportunity should live but can't thrive. By resisting these avenues, we also resist what naturally comes with them: knowledge, growth, confidence, and ultimately, the outcomes we desire.
It’s like the metaphor you shared—wanting a baby but not being willing to deal with the dirty diapers. The diapers are part of the journey, part of what shapes the bond, the memories, and the life you’re building together. By avoiding the dirty work, we may unknowingly deprive ourselves of the connection, depth, and rewards that come from fully engaging with the process.
Success demands the courage to confront the things we avoid—the skills we think are beyond us, the steps that feel tedious, and the paths that seem uncertain. It’s only when we make room for them that we create space for success. Embracing discomfort is often the price of progress, and while it’s rarely easy, the rewards are more than worth the effort.
What’s something you’ve been avoiding lately, and how could embracing it transform your journey? I’d be curious to hear your perspective!