Life be lifing & "sometimes there isnt much that can be done about it" is what we or told but I got a hard head & I also have control issues so nope there is always something to be done & I have control of me&my life period! When life life's you have to find someway somehow to make something positive about life's lifing & then you must stand on all 10 get out of your head & set your mind on a Lil goal & you meet it & keep that going another small goal