In this post, I asked you guys to tell me your strategies for making friends. If you haven't responded to that, yet click there and let me know your thoughts. Lord knows we need them. My favorite strategy is something that I call finding your happy place. The simple way to do this is: 1. Make a list of all the things you REALLY enjoy. 2. Ask ChatGPT for places where you can enjoy those things socially 3. Then, the next time you have free time, go there on your own or with a friend who enjoys similar things. WHY THIS WORKS When you are surrounded by people who have similar interests as you, it is so much easier to start a conversation with a stranger. You have an idea about the things that they like, you are either knowledgeable or interested in learning more, and the vibe is just there. Going to a paint & sip or cooking class, even if a bit scary, is going to be more effective than sitting at home. So, question: What is your happy place?