Love and Hate as Neighboring Vectors Ontological Metric-Design, Engagement Objective Functions, and the Human–Algorithm Co-Design Problem
Abstract This thesis formalizes a practical and testable claim that initially appears poetic but is, on inspection, an engineerable idea: although “love” and “hate” are commonly treated as opposites, they become neighbors when meaning is represented in a richer space than one-dimensional sentiment. The apparent contradiction dissolves once we distinguish between (a) a projection (e.g., valence on a positive–negative axis) and (b) a full representation (e.g., high-dimensional semantics where shared latent factors dominate distance). From this foundation, the thesis extends the same geometry to social platforms: algorithmic systems optimize for measurable engagement proxies, and those proxies privilege high-arousal, high-salience content. The result is a platform “metric geometry” where emotional opposites can become algorithmic neighbors because they share the same distributional energy (attention and intensity). We show how an author can “go against what the algorithm wants while giving it what it wants” by designing a two-layer message: one layer satisfies the platform’s objective function (hook, arousal, narrative tension), while the other layer preserves human-meaning and responsibility (insight, reconciliation, learning, ontology). This is framed not as manipulation, but as objective-function steering and post-deployment governance of ideas. The thesis provides a conceptual model, a formal vocabulary (metric choice, projection, latent attractors, objective proxies), and practical protocols for responsible use in a private community context. 1. Introduction: Why “Opposites” Is Often a Projection Error Most people learn early that love and hate are opposites, and that intuition is “correct” in the same way a simplified physics diagram is correct: it captures a real component of the system, but it confuses a component for the whole. The confusion arises because everyday language collapses multiple dimensions of meaning into a single moral-emotional axis: positive versus negative, approach versus avoidance, good versus bad. When you compress meaning into that axis, love and hate naturally appear as vectors pointing in opposite directions. The problem is not that the axis is wrong; it’s that the axis is incomplete. In real cognition—human or machine—words are not stored as single numbers but as structured relations, contexts, memories, and associations. In that larger space, love and hate frequently share the same neighborhood because they are both about something that matters. They are both high-attention, high-identity, high-stakes states. The “opposite” property lives inside one slice of the representation, while the “neighbor” property views the representation in full.