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Challenge 1: What do you guys read in her profile?
See what you can read in her subcommunications and comment below. Anything from feelings, gut reactions, impressions. What does her profile trigger in you. No wrong answers - let’s see what you all pick up on and puzzle out about her in a get in her head way. Drop your comments and I will review them. 🗳️ Let me know after I reviewed your comment, did you like this format — or was that too brutal?
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Low vibration says something about you
Low vibrational states and hell loops go together. That kind of energy is resonant in people who feel they aren’t good enough. Aren’t worthy of love. They probably only feel comfortable to laugh freely, to connect to the playful inner child energy around those they feel are their peers. With their oldest friends they can be themselves. No new friends, no new connection. No enjoyment of their life. They are playing a game where they are unworthy. They have hypnotized themselves with reinforced social hierarchies and toxic dynamics, almost all of which are psychological relics in their life. Simply echoing around inside their subconscious like a scream that can’t come out and never fades.
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The Spectacular Drowning Man: Episode 1
Walthamstow England 20 years ago. I was 17. She was a year older. She would have me pick her up after work. Drive her home in the rain. The whole ride she talked about a fireman she'd met that night. I didn't say anything. I didn't have the language for what was happening yet. This is the first episode of something I've been building. Real stories. Real moments. Illustrated. The tools aren't perfect yet. Panel 8 tells you that. It was supposed to end very differently than a simple censor bubble, but sadly the only AI capable of doing this is very misaligned to talking about the realities of men. The AI is itself an embayment of all the bias we have culturally towards women and against men. So getting it to tell emotionally deep stories that are real. That go into real graphic depth. Is almost impossible. Almost 😈 More coming. Thanks to @Aaron Elliott for giving me the idea to tell these stories in more direct ways for you guys. I hope you like it. 🗳️ Poll: She told you about meeting a great guy while she was working as a hot 18 year old bar tender at the most popular place around. What did you do?
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Temporary Content Disruption!
Hey guys — the pause in content over the past week has a reason. Working flat out on the invisible infrastructure: legal entity, residency, healthcare. All of it means one thing practically — I'm going full digital nomad and leaving Spain. Georgia first, then wherever the work takes me. On the product side: the audit reaching MVP gave me enough data to start doing things in this space that haven't been done before. The site is becoming a full webapp with capabilities significantly beyond anything currently out there. More on that soon. Content is also shifting — deeper, longer, more intense material here in the community. Shorter entry-level versions on YouTube. Shorts and articles alongside. Higher quality than anything I've put out before. Been slower than I wanted — honestly this has been one of the more compressed and stressful periods of my life — but what's coming is worth it. About to head to Georgia. Fill in the event questionnaire if you're interested in an IRL workshop or working together directly. And on that note — if you've experienced me doing state work over message or a call, know that in person it's a different order of magnitude. I can read and shift a room. It's closer to a magic trick than a coaching session. See some of you out there! While I am in a slightly quieter moment please do post wins, messages with chicks and anything else! You guys are stacking wins and not sharing, so you aren't seeing currently how much you are all improving, but honestly it's awesome and is why I feel so happy to work on this project full time. Several of you are fully mastering the state needed to move past the drowning man, as well as absorbing the intellectual understanding too. A little public call out and celebration. The way forward to a better life and new, hopeful horizons are unfolding (s/o @James Helt ). While others are already graduating TDM with a blackbelt, s/o @Bojan Kitanovic . Truly inspiring growth and an awesome big brother already to new guys who were in similar circumstances not so long ago.
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Plant Seeds & Have Patience
Often when guys are getting started they will put undue importance on individual encounters. They will remember this one time they had possibly a slight spark for a moment with a chick from years ago, or think about that one time they said one word to a girl or almost did. They roll it around in their head endlessly. A clear sign of scarcity. When I speak to chicks, I literally forget them. The meeting and quick checks are simply something going on all the time. Even if I have a few messages with a girl if you're stopping someone cold in the street and inviting them to come into your life in some way, you have to appreciate that most people have other stuff going on. Other dick already. But they will be happy to take the contact for later if you make them feel a certain way. Just because you are ready and really want something to happen, even if you do everything 'right', doesn't really mean shit. Much is out of your control. The need for immediate results is the enemy of frame. I literally won't even save chicks numbers in my phone until after we have been on at least a few dates. It's often just not the right moment, but if you make a big impression, what tends to happen is when their situation changes, they go back over their possible options they feel they have and reach out. Ping. Is this pathway still open? If you are out there making new connections, being open and non-pushy and letting things play out with some patience often this kind of thing will happen. When the time is right for them they will simply check and see if the time is good. This is like the 'heyyy' text. It means, 'I'm free now, if you still want to hit me up' This is why also a lot of you don't realise that your level is fine. You are making good enough impressions, if you can get the numbers, make the contact, and then wait without blowing up, angry, frustrated or bitter ('You fucking bitch, you held me on backup while you rode other dick, now you want me?') Got to let that go, it's simply how the animal works.
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